I dated a married guy once. In fact, we were engaged and almost got married ourselves. What broke us up? That he was married when we got together, ironically. Oddly enough, never once in all the years we struggled to make that relationship work did it ever occur to me to call my local paper (or a global tabloid) and give a blow-by-blow description to people who deliberately use the information to humiliate and desecrate the people involved; namely, his wife and family. Nope. Not ever. As a matter of fact, I felt quite the opposite.
I believe that emotional intimacy is the MAIN component of a love relationship that keeps a man invested long-term. Most older women can’t compete with 25-year-olds and 30-somethings sauntering through their husbands’ work spaces in miniskirts and push-up bras, but the wise older wives have something much more significant than toned bodies and flawless skin: they have years’ worth of happy marital memories, which have enhanced their ability to hold their husband
When I found out about my husband’s affair I was so shocked I just wanted to pack my things and run. An affair was not even a possible scenario in my life. Without talking to him, without even getting him to admit – I knew right there and then that I could never trust him again and that this marriage was over. I felt angry, stupid, disillusioned, betrayed and my self confidence just disappeared. I couldn’t stop imagining him intimate with someone – much smarter, funnier, younger (of course…) and better looking than me.
Cheating statistics in the United States are increasing every year - at an amazing rate. Long lasting marriages or relationships seem to be harder to achieve and even rare. When I first found out about my husband's affair with his coworker, one of the first things I asked myself is: "Am I alone? Am I the only one in my neighborhood that is going through this awful crisis? Do I know anyone else that was cheated by her husband?"
Getting over obsessive and haunting images of your husband cheating – Is a big part of saving a marriage after infidelity. These images keep coming back like a horror movie in your head, causing loss of sleep, decreased appetite and even difficulty to focus and perform simple daily tasks. If this is how you feel, you are not alone. Here you find 3 steps for overcoming these awful images so you can get your life back and start the healing process after an affair. What Are The Most Common Images After Husband Affair?
Emotional affairs are not any less hurtful than physical affairs. Actually, they pose much more threat to you marriage than a physical betrayal. This guide gives you emotional affair signs – So you could finally decide: Is your husband having an emotional affair? “While my husband was in the shower, I checked his phone,” Sara confessed. “I’ve never done that before, but lately I noticed him getting many messages, both text and voice messages. I had a feeling deep inside that it wasn’t work related.
You've been betrayed. The person that's supposed to be your best friend, the one you trusted most, has lied to you, cheated on you and shattered your life as you know it - leaving you angry, shocked, afraid and with no self confidence what so ever. It's a horrible feeling. The foundation of your marriage - fidelity and trust - is now broken. This is probably the biggest crisis that a relationship can go through.