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Study: Women Who Make More Decisions Have Less Sex

Busy making household decisions? You're probably less intimate with your partner.

A new study published in the Journal of Sex reports that the more decisions a woman makes on her own, the less likely she is to have sex.

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Study: Families More Likely To Break Up After Natural Disaster

What Hurricane Katrina victims can teach Joplin tornado survivors about preserving family.

The tornado that has left Joplin in ruins is but one of the natural disasters the world has experienced lately. Recovery from said disasters can be difficult, and a new study finds that households are more susceptible to breaking up after a disaster strikes.

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How To Tell If You Are Dating A Man Or A Boy

Boyfriend material? 10 things to spot around his home that'll let you know.

As any girl in the dating world will tell you, you can tell pretty much all you need to know about a potential boyfriend from the house he keeps. We're not saying emotional maturity is reflected in one's furniture ... except, yeah, we kinda are. It's not about whether or not the guy has money; it's about whether or not he's learned to make his house a home without Mom's help. So, without further ado, we'd like to present 10 home goods that separate the men from the boys.

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6 Unspoken Domestic Gripes Of Couples

What your live-in partner is thinking but not saying about the way you two live.

While recently having dinner with a dear old friend who has joined the married lot, we just had to ask. Come on, we urged. Is there anything about living with your woman that drives you berserk but that you'd never tell her about?

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5 "Man Chores" That Will Get Him To Do Housework

Advice on how to divide housework. First tip? Get him to do man chores!

According to Simon Oaks, author of Will Marry for Food, Sex and Laundry, men aren't wired for certain chores. He cites the (made-up) proverb: "Give a man a clean kitchen and he'll make a mess of the place after one meal. Teach a man to clean a kitchen and you'll probably have to clean up after him anyway." So how do you handle housework when one of you is a repeat pleaning offender? Oaks devotes a whole chapter of his book to this; here are a few highlights.

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I Have Two Husbands: A Polygamist's Diary

A modern-day polygamist explains her side of the story.

When Big Love came out, we all thought it was pretty silly. To start with, we all consider ourselves to be one family, not three separate but connected families. The ideas that plural marriage is restricted to the one man and several wives model—and that it has to have a religious basis—are both ridiculous. We also don't consider the political jockeying, the backbiting and the attempts to get more of the husband's attention or money, to be loving behavior. If the youngest wife is so insecure, she should go find herself a nice monogamous man.