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Start erasing your sex mistakes now.

3 Sex Mistakes You Should Avoid

Are these mistakes hurting your sex life?

Over the course of the last month, we collected 1,300 reader responses for an Astroglide-sponsored survey all about sex. We got glimpses into where, when and how our users are hooking up, and—from the results—compiled three major mistakes we all should avoid when it comes to sex.

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Try them all tonight and turn up the heat.

15 (More!) Tips From Men To Spice Up Your Sex Life

How to keep the sexy alive, whether you've been in a relationship for six months or 20 years.

Let's face it, ladies, when it comes to sex, we have a lot to learn, especially if we've been with the same partner for a long time. And who better to give women sex tips than men?

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Try them all tonight and turn up the heat.

15 Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life (From Men)

How to keep the sexy alive, whether you've been in a relationship for six months or 20 years.

It's hard, especially if you've been a long-term relationship or marriage, to keep the sexy alive. It's easy to fall into a rut when it comes to a romp in the bedroom -- we've all done it -- and harder than ever to come back out of the rut with some new sexy moves.

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"Hm, I hope I see her naked later."

What Do Lube, Popcorn & Movie Tickets Have In Common?

The K-Y Brand Date Night pack is a box of fun for couples looking to enjoy a hot, sexy night.

It's a cold winter, and likely you're scrambling to finish your holiday shopping, scheduling family time, and, oh, working hard at your job. Not exactly an ideal time to plan creative dates with your significant other.

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Is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow better than sex?

8 (More) Things That Are Decidedly Better Than Sex

You hated it, and we're bringing it back. Things that are better than sex.

Backstory: In August, we penned a piece called "12 Things That Are Decidedly Better Than Sex," which caused quite the uproar. Fifty-six comments later, the haters are still going strong, and somehow refuse to understand that this was humor meant to add a little levity to our sex-obsessed society.

Love Bytes: The 29 Most Useful Sex Tips You'll Ever Read
29 sex tips from 29 sexperts (that's sex experts, if you don't know the vernacular).

Love Bytes: The 29 Most Useful Sex Tips You'll Ever Read

Plus, the 13 most embarrassing things that can happen during sex.

29 pieces of sex advice you need to know now. 13 hilarious bedroom bummers. A flowchart that will let you know if your wedding hookup is just for the night or looking to date. A young rugby player suddenly turns gay after a stroke? Is Ryan Gosling basically porn for women? What happens when you Google the one that got away? And, should divorced parents be allowed to have adult sleepovers?

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Have you ever had sex in an elevator?

50 Ways To Improve Your Sexual Connection Tonight

Sexy tips from Jamye Waxman, author of new book "Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight."

In celebration of my latest book, Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, I've decided to round up 50 sexy or sex-filled things that you can do — easily. Well, depending on the kids and time, and without much prep, to help keep things cayenne-pepper hot in the sexy time department. And I want you to add to the list too, please!

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What Guys Think Links: Soul-Rattling Sex For Cool Autumn Nights

Plus: What if he wants kids and she doesn't? Moby wants to do porn. Daddy complexes don't exist?

Why amazing sex should be a prerequisite, not a bonus. The freakiest women are sometimes the quietest. Which gender is lazier in bed? Can you teach someone to be better in bed or to like what you like? Moby wants to do porn. How to exit "the friend zone." How to get a guy to take a hint without hurting his feelings. Breaking hearts ain't what it used to be. Why daddy issues are a crock. And what if he wants babies and she doesn't.

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5 Types Of Sex You Can't Have After Labor Day

Sex that's strictly for summer.

Labor Day has finally arrived, and even more than the long weekend away from work we are ecstatic about the cool weather coming our way. But we will miss a few things about summer—like sex on the beach.

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Poll: Is Sex Hotter During A Hurricane?

Urban legend says babies come after a blackout. How about a hurricane? Hurricane Irene, perhaps?

Hurricane Irene is heading for the East Coast, and some say it'll be the worst hurricane we've had in decades. Many of you will be hunkered down at home, just waiting for it to end. And if you have a partner, it just might be a great opportunity to get busy...