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I hear there are some wild parties in Hell.

What's Worse: Cheating Or Atheism?

The holidays inspire us to think about whether we believe in God. I don't.

As an atheist, it's nice to know that I'm less likely to ever become president than a devout Christian who's cheated on his wife with everything that moves. Hypocrites much? Even as an atheist, I know the Ten Commandments better than some conservative folks.

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Signs that he's not feeling the love this holiday season.

10 Signs You Should Break Up This Holiday Season

How to tell if you're not the partridge to his pear tree.

The holidays are a time to share with the people you love most. Your boyfriend, of course, should be included in that bunch. But the holidays can also make or break a relationship.

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Smooches at SantaCon!

Love, Marriage & Making Out At SantaCon: 10 Sexiest Moments

This weekend, partiers will unite dressed in (often sexy) Santa costumes for the annual SantaCon.

The mob of red and white runs around cities all over the world, like New York City and San Francisco, to spread tipsy season greetings, sometimes making love connections. To get in the spirit, check out Santa smooches from SantaCons past.

Beat the Holiday Blues When You're Single & the World is a Couple

Beat the Holiday Blues When You're Single & the World is a Couple

Being single during the holidays doesn't have to suck.

If you're single and you'd like to be in a relationship, this time of year can be excruciating. There can seem to be countless ads showing happy-in-love couples giving one another romantic gifts: Cars with big red bows parked outside the house. Glittering jewelry. Even those “Forever Lazy” wearable blanket things. In television ads and in the real life examples of people around you, it can appear that everyone else has a partner to exchange gifts with and to share the season with. Except you.

Stop The Madness! How I'm Reclaiming Christmas For My Family

Stop The Madness! How I'm Reclaiming Christmas For My Family

Creating your own Advent calendar & other tips for making Christmas about memories, not presents.

Buy, buy, buy. I cringed that the verb was dominating my Christmas to-do list, and it wasn't even December yet. Looking back on my childhood, I remember magical moments with my family more than I remember specific gifts. I want my kids to have these kinds of memories, too, and not just a solid lesson in materialism...

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Stumped on what to get your friend for the holidays?

Holiday Gift Guide For Every Love Stage: Just Friends [GALLERY]

Gifts for him and her, whether your relationship is strictly platonic or too confusing to explain.

Stumped on what to get the guy or gal in your life who you're just friends with (or just friends with benefits with)? Well, we've hand-selected the perfect holiday presents that are thoughtful enough, but don't convey, "I like you more than I'll admit." Click through our gallery to see our top gift choices for him and for her.

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Don't be that Stalker Girl!

8 Ways To Keep From Contacting Your Ex This Holiday Season

From exercise to makeovers, these tips should keep you distracted from the temptation of your ex.

The holiday season can be a tricky time to be single, even if you've been that way for a while, even if you're totally comfortable with it the other 11 months of the year. Some weird single holiday haze descends and makes the most well-adjusted among us feel like lousy lumps of unwanted coal.

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Are you hanging out under the mistletoe this holiday season?

The 3 Types Of Holiday Hookups, Defined

Are you a booty call, friend with benefits or one-night stand? New study defines hookup types.

Holiday hookups may be all the rage this season — you know, right alongside temporary boyfriends and desperate attempts to hang out under the mistletoe.

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Express your love by cooking dinner together, going ice skating and more.

7 Most Romantic Winter Date Ideas!

There are lots of fun cold-weather date ideas.

As the seasons change, so do your date options. Since the days of playful picnics or long walks on the beach are behind us, it's time to find ways to get romantic with your man when the weather outside is frightful.

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Look ma, we're a real couple! Really!

Temporary Holiday Boyfriends: WTF?

You know love is dead when people start advertising for holiday significant others on Craigslist.

Surprisingly, or maybe unsurprisingly, some singles are looking for temporary relationships for the holiday season. Apparently, it's fine to be single all year long, but when Christmas, Hanukkah or whatever your holiday jam is rolls around, you best be coupled up, sister. And since you can find pretty much everything else on Craigslist, you might as well find a short-term fella to bring home to mom and dad.

Holiday Gift Guide For Every Love Stage: Married
"Oh, you shouldn't have dear!"

Holiday Gift Guide For Every Love Stage: Married

What to get the love of your life — for husband and wife.

This is one of the reasons you got married — so you can spend the holidays with your husband or wife. Whether it's your first season together or your 30th, you never get tired of the look on your significant other's face when they open the perfect gift you hand-selected for them.