Dating Tips: 4 Ways To Be Authentically Hard To Get
Authenticity comes from being hard to get, not playing hard to get.
Experts Blog

Who's Playing Games? 4 Ways To Be Authentically Hard To Get

Playing hard to get and being hard to get are two very different things according to dating expert Elizabeth Stone. In order to maintain interest and avoid unobtainable expectations, one should never play this gimmicky game. Read on to learn the 4 ways you can (and should) be authentically hard to get.

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Love Buzz

4 Gold-Medal Dating Rules For Singles

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cat and mouse
Should you be the pursuer or the pursued?
Community

Is This Normal? I Have To Chase Him

Dating is often a game of cat and mouse, but presumably, doesn't the mouse just give up and then you start looking for apartments together? This week, Cat (really, that's her name) wrote in to ask if it's normal for men to expect you to be in constant pursuit. She writes: "We hooked up for about 2 months and twice during that time he got upset for whatever reason (he plays the martyr bit, “you don’t have time for me”) and stopped talking to me without ever discussing it.

heart break
A small part of us makes us seek affection and approval from those who withhold it.
Love Buzz

Love Bytes: Ignoring Men Makes Them Love You More

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