Life Coach: The Questions You Should Ask Before You Commit
I know he's the one. For the first time in my life, I'm absolutely certain...I think.
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8 Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Commit To A Partner

Falling in love can be easy, but choosing the best candidate is not always the same. Sometimes you find yourself going back and forth in your head asking, "Is this the person I'm destined to be with? What if it's not?" If this sounds like you even just a little, you should definitely read Life Coach Bonnie Olson's article for support.

Divorce Usually Isn't A Surprise
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Divorce Usually Isn't A Surprise

Divorce is always good for women, if not right away, then eventually. I say this because women typically do not divorce on a whim, they do so after years sacrificing their wants and needs for the benefit of others, until they finally learn that unhappiness is not par for the course. Women take unhappiness more seriously than men because unhappiness takes a bigger toll on us.

Will We Be Working Till We're 80?
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Will We Be Working Till We're 80?

With so many people still struggling to find work in this slow moving economy, those with jobs being quite frugal even during the holidays, and many losing much of their retirement funds... are we all going to be working just like today till we're 80? I saw a tv news story of a woman who had always hoped she's retire in her 60s or even 70s, but now realizes she may have to continue working into her 80s. How many people can imagine this?

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Girl Goes To A Bachelor Party: My Strip-Club Orgasm

I’m not one of those girls who hates other girls. Most of my close friends are women, and although I have guy friends I’m far from “one of the guys.” I don’t like sports, I don’t eat pizza or drink beer, and I’m very particular about keeping things neat and tidy. However, my best friend from college happens to be a guy. I first met Josh a few weeks into my freshman year. We went on one date, kissed for three seconds, and quickly decided we were better off as friends. Twelve years later, and still very close, Josh called to tell me I was officially invited to his bachelor party. It was going to be me and 27 dudes in Atlantic City for the weekend. I was honored to be deemed awesome enough to be the one chick at a bachelor party, excited to see behind the testosterone curtain, curious to learn what really goes on at these things and determined to live up to Josh’s expectations of me seamlessly fitting in, even though I lacked an Adam’s apple, stubble, and a penis.

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Craigslist Shelves "Adult Services" Postings

Craigslist has been taking it on the chin from Attorneys General in many states and has, at least for now, closed down their Adult Services section. Largely known for its wink-wink massage work, the category has a sign over it stating "censored." The law thinks this will cut down on prostitution and hopefully other crimes.

YourTango Best Sex 2008
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YourTango's Best Sex Of 2008

In our steamiest revelations, most fearless sexual reporting and best sexpert advice of 2008 we investigate the female happy ending massage, the myth of the male orgasm, sex parties, public sex, masturbation and more.

Is Dirtbag The New Black?
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Is Dirtbag The New Black?

By all means, boys, revel in happy ending massages and seek refuge marathan rounds of Halo. Adulthood is hard, y'all! Asshole is "in" right now for men, says Details magazine. As relationships become more egalitarian, author Simon Dumenco writes, some men feel more pressured to seek sex on the sly to prove to themselves testosterone still courses through their muscles as they empty the Diaper Genie. If a boyfriend or husband acts immature or selfish, is he just acting out of frustration? We beg to disagree: asshole doesn't mean the same thing as masculine. We think we know which show to blame for this confusion: Mad Men, which is about Madison Avenue advertising men in 1960's America.

Not So "Happy Ending" For OB-GYN
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Not So "Happy Ending" For OB-GYN

An OB-GYN in British Columbia was recently suspended for asking out a patient- an ethical no-no according to the British Columbia College of Physicians and Surgeons' annual report, which dually notes its recent review of the 28 sexual misconduct allegations of 24 different physicians in 2007. The report vaguely recounts the telltale signs of inappropriate conduct -as if there is any question whether sexual intercourse may be inappropriate during a typical pelvic exam. Also far from surprising: "sexualized touching" appears on the list.

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This Lady Got Her Happy Ending Massage (And You Can Too)

Chances are you've heard the story: An unmarked door leads to a dimly-lit massage parlor where women with strong hands and tolerant smiles await a train of libidinous male patrons. The "happy ending" tale is all too common, a mixture of truth and urban legend that captivates male imaginations even in an age of casual sex and unlimited Internet porn. But until recently, the female version of "happy endings" has remained doggedly taboo. While one woman's violation may be the next woman's fantasy, here is the bottom line: We like massages and we like orgasms, so why shouldn't the two sometimes, er, come hand in hand?