I want to rev up my sex life.

What can I do about no libido?

ragingnorthwolf — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 21:45:16 -0400

I moved in with my fiance a little over a year ago after we dated for 2 years. When we first moved in together, we couldn't have enough of each other. Then a few months later our sex life began dwindling. Now it mostly seems like a chore for me to have sex with him. I love him to no end but I can never seem to get in the mood. Role playing doesn't help, porn doesn't help, using "toys" doesn't help either. I just can't seem to get horny anymore. It's very upsetting because my fiance still has a huge sex drive and I never want to do it with him. And I can tell it hurts him that I don't want it.
I'm not sure what is causing it but I do have a very stressful job. I also get homesick from time to time because I moved 1200+ miles away from my family to be with him. I don't think it is my birth control because I've been on it the entire time we've been seeing each other.

I want to rev up my sex life.

does my partner/wife genuinely love me

smokes — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 10:29:44 -0400

My wife and I been maried for almost two years. Before we got married we were lovers for a long time. We were palyers as well. I had plenty women and was still cheating when we got married. She may have cut all ties but im not a 100% sure. She caught me out there a number of times and i think she started cheating herself (whether it was physical, I dont know). We soon later had a baby and while she was pregnant i was still cheating and didnt have sex w/her. Now that ive finally matured i dont mess around and im dedicated and infatueated with my wife but know the tables are turned and she seems distant. She was but no longer is very sexual with me. She always wanted to have sex but since the baby, shes not really interested. I blame myself for it. If i was faithful from the start, i wouldnt be complaing right now. If i made her happy and gave her what she wanted, i would be good. Now i think shes cheating or i turned her off from sex. Im confused cause i love her to death but her attitude and her sexual appetite has went south. What could i do to rekindle her sexual apetite. Cause i tried!! but no cigar. We are very young and at our sexual peak. Im finna go back to my old ways if it doesnt get better but i rather not. I need some help.

I want to figure out where my relationship is going.

Anyone Else Successfully Made It Through a REALLY Rough Patch?

Rhett — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 17:46:04 -0400

The details.... okay, well, I'm just some dude. My wife's going through something of her own, something I don't fully understand. I'm trying to hold space for her. We've been married 15 years, together 20+. As far as I'm concerned, she's my soul mate. I love her more than anything, ever. She used to be *so* madly in love with me. I mean, sure, we had rough patches, good times & bad like anyone else. But, I always thought we were a permanent team, like an institution or something. I see her as my best friend, confidante, lover, partner in life ... and then one day she just stopped. After 20 years -- and some *damn* passionate ones in there, too -- she was just like, "Uh, I just don't think you're sexy... oh, and I *never* did." She'd met some hot dude in the desert one day who was *so* unbelievably sexy, she said, that it actually redefined sexy for her. I mean, here's a 40-year old woman... she's seen a LOT of hot men in her life, and has dated and made out with a lot of them, too. But NO ONE in the history of all men compares to this super-dude in the desert? WTF? Who was this guy? Like some sort of magical freakin stud from outer space or something? I mean, seriously! 40-years and all the hot men in the whole world, and *no* one compares with this?

Anyway, I know I'm anonymous here, but for the sake of argument, let's just say that I *AM* attractive, ok? And that she used hand-feed my ego on that level, for many years. So, I went digging through emails and love notes from her. I said, "What about this? What about that?" (all notes and things from her telling me how "sexy" -- yes, quoting directly -- she thought I was). I mean, Christ, there are love notes from our younger days that are too steamy for even this site! So, I showed her that stuff, some of it recent, and she got all confused. It was like I was showing her things she'd written that she'd forgotten about (or maybe had repressed in light of the super-stud from outer space).

I want to figure out where my relationship is going.

How do I get my exgirlfriend back, after I know that I've been too clingy?

GoGetter — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 11:05:00 -0400

So 4 months ago, I started dating the coolest girl that I've ever met. She's a single mom, I'm a single dad, with custody of my kids. I have a feeling I might have been the rebound guy. We started dating and we totally clicked. We seriously share a brain. Finish each other's sentences, etc. All of a sudden she started growing distant. She said that I am like her BFF. I have a feeling that I was a little clingy which is TOTALLY unlike me. I'm usually so calm, cool and collected. I never cared if a girl liked me or not. I don't know what brought on or why it was this girl that it happened with. My buddies all say that she's cute, but that I have dated way cuter. I think it's just the fact that she's so awesome is the reason that I wanted to be with her so much.

I totally want her back, and don't know how I should go about doing it.

We're friends, she still calls me, we hang out on the weekends etc. I think I need to put an end to all of the friend stuff, because I don't want to become a permanent platonic friend.

One last important detail... She's a shrink. Yep. A therapist. What the hell did I get myself into...ha ha.

I want to meet someone and fall in love.

How can my partner overcome a commitment issue?

stergs02 — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 13:02:19 -0400

My partner and I have been together for almost 3 years. We officially broke up in April but around May/June time frame we working things out and got back together. Things are much better than before but just recently I told her the I told her neighbors that we are back together. She just recently freaked out and told me that we are not together and she has a huge commitment issue. She has been married twice, she divorce them both. She doesn't like the labeling part....ie girlfriend. She feels trapped. Also, she had a very high libido and now she says that she isn't horny any more due to the fact that she feels trapped and smothered. How can I work with her to overcome this major commitment issue?

I want to figure out where my relationship is going.

Should I be THIS self concious about my body?

iamcitykitty — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 16:23:48 -0400

I was in a relationship that lasted 8 years and recently ended. I had a baby and gained a TON of weight. The weight is now gone. HOWEVER, I'm so insecure about what my body now looks like that the prospect of re-entering the dating scene and potentially being physical with some one new has me seriously considering being single for the rest of my life. I'm 31, BTW.

I've got stretch marks from breasts to knees, those are looking better with time and I'm slightly ok with that part. The parts that are just really really disturbing to me are my breasts. They sag and the nipples are really extra saggy. I'm so insecure about them that I never want another human to see them again.

I'm I just being stupid here. I want HONEST answers, even if they make me cry, because I don't know that I will ever be comfortable about showing my body and feeling sexy while doing so again.

THANKS!

I want to rev up my sex life.

why can't I overcome jelousy?

kvs32 — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 18:27:16 -0400

I got married at the age of 18 to my high school sweetheart. Due to my parents upbringing, I was a very naive girl. I've been married for 14 years. I am now 32 years old with 2 boys. Through-out my entire relationship with my husband, I have been a jelous person. About 4 years ago, my husband confessed that had been unfaithful to me for about 2 years. He ofcourse appologized and I decided to forgive him, but I cannot forget what he did. This news ofcourse devestated me and I feel like it increased my jelous mindset. I get furious when I catch him staring at other women. I am constantly, wondering if he is still cheating. I tend to over analyze and sometimes struggle with letting me emotions get the best out of me.

I want to figure out where my relationship is going.

Virgin for Life??

jasminegrrl09 — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 19:20:15 -0400

My boyfriend and I have tried to have sex like, a billion times, but we just can't! I can only think about the pain and he's trying so hard to calm me down that he can't stay up and then he wants me to do reverse missionary which i am totally against because he thinks it'll be easier but i can't... help? advice? I just want us to be happy in every way...

I want to rev up my sex life.

How do you know if your partner of 8 yrs is still in love with you?

hotmama30 — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 15:51:37 -0400

I have been with this man for 8 years and we have 1 child together but it seems like al we do lately is fight and bicker over the craziest things and it's the same fight all the time. We have hardly any intimacy anymore and we are a young couple in our thirties we should be alot happier together don't you think?

I want to figure out where my relationship is going.

How do I bring the love back into my relationship?

Beachluvinmommy — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 11:50:41 -0400

My husband & I have been married for 5 years. We have a 3 1/2 year old son and a 2 year old son. My husband snores - which makes it very difficult to sleep with him - so, I've taken to sleeping with my kids in their Queen bed - just to ensure that I get a good night's sleep. My husband has an apnea machine - but won't use it. My husband also has low testosterone levels - but won't use the medication because it's too expensive. He NEVER gives me compliments or ever says anything nice or appreciative to me. We never touch, kiss, hold hands.....anything. We haven't had sex in........months?
I can't even remember. I am miserable. I feel unloved and certainly not desirable. Can you tell me what we should do? I'm thinking divorce - but I'd hate to put my kids through that.

I want to make my partnership stronger.

Is being single and 24 something I should be ashamed of?

burgandy — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 20:53:20 -0400

I want to meet someone and fall in love.

What keeps you feeling sexy?

bayangel — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 15:53:12 -0400

Trying to rediscover that sexy feeling after going through some serious life issues. What are your tricks to feel sexier?

I want to figure out where my relationship is going.

What exactly is love?

atragon — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 10:54:09 -0400

I have a relationship. it runs its course, the emotions die down, the sex vanishes. I move on. I have no clue what real love is, or is it just a figment to sell Hallmark cards and jewelry?

I want to deal with relationship problems.

How do I get over being shy about making the first move?

Jinxy Peach — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 20:37:42 -0400

He knows when I want it.
I know when he wants it.
&& even when I do I can't bring myself to make the 1st move its like embarrassing for me almost. I can't get over it. So I let him do it. I know he's not tired of being the one to do it but I know he'd be happily surprised if I was the one to start it. But I can't help myself. Its like public speaking for some people. (Even though I speak very good in public) its the complete opposite for me in the bedroom. Help me :(

I want to make my partnership stronger.

how do i keep my fiance intrested in me?

unloved87 — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 13:09:44 -0400

i dont know what to do, ive been with my fiance for nearly a year and recently weve been havin a lot of problems due to the fact we spent every day together, but since weve been giving each other space its felt like hes going off me.. he doesnt want to cuddle me,kiss me or anything liek that, he doesnt want to do anything with me and says that its because he doesnt feel in the mood!

there has been problems with girls since weve been together and its makin me think that theres soemone else because something is on his mind and its clearly not me!

I want to rev up my sex life.

Do guys think it's slutty when a girl keeps a condom on her?

jabber — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 03:24:21 -0400

Just wondering. I know it's OK for a guy to keep one (which I think is kind of a double standard, by the way), but what happens when a girl does? I asked my male friends but I get mixed answers. What do you guys think?

I want to meet someone and fall in love.

Is he still into me?

Princess Grant — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 21:04:04 -0400

Am with this guy for 3 months now. At our 1st month we see each other almost everyday, but he never touches and kisses me. Until he opened up that he feels awkward that he can't even touches me, and even his slightest touch is unwelcome. At the end of the 1st month, he invited for an out-of-town trip, and 1st touch, 1st kiss happened. By our second month, we see like once a week, it didn't bothers me at first, because he still texts me once and a while. And we become sexually involved too. As the 3rd month approaches, he again invited me for a trip. I was so confuse then, so I confronted him about us two. I asked him about our dating thing. I know, it was the dumpest thing I did. But I wanted to know where I stand because, I will be meeting friends of family, best friend, of course. I don't want to mess up my life with those people. He replied that we are now dating constantly. But after that day, he did not texted me for a week. I was confuse then. Two weeks after, he texted that he wanted to see me. First invitation, I said I was busy. On the next day, we make out. After that night, he hurriedly went home, and did not bothers to text me. The scene now is, he is not texting me until I texted him. He only replies on my text, and that's it.

No more sweet words from him. By the way, he used to tell me that I should give time to myself, being to busy is not good. We usually meet up during lunch. And have quickie at night, if we go out. And we also have a language barrier, he can't open much about us.

I want to figure out where my relationship is going.

Can a man be too loving?

scottjnsn — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 11:56:08 -0400

In some cases nowadays, couples break up because of the guy being too clingy, or being "in too deep". I am the type of person that when I fall, I fall hard. I have always been monagomous and loyal. I can't help it, it's in my mentality. I have been left before for being too attached. My intense devotion scared her I guess.. Her expectations from the relationship were probably different from mine.
Despite my age (21) I am set on one person, and love the idea of settling down with them. I love the idea of having kids too, but now is not a proper time. I want to marry my love. Some people say I would be too young to know what I truly want, or understand what love is. Ive been through a lot with relationships, and am certain about what I want.

What I want out of a relationship is loyalty, communication, romance, trust, and affection. The need for affection can sometimes be interpreted as needing "attention" Sure, I love attention from my lover. But I understand it's limits, when it can become too demanding.
I do not ever want my relationship to stagnate, and my partner to become bored with me. What I do is I try to create new ways to show my lover how much I care and admire them, and I expect that from them also. Is that a bad thing to desire? Is it overkill?

Please give me your thoughts. Thanks. =)

I want to make my partnership stronger.

Can swinging enhance a monogomous relationship or will it ruin it?

bsj1970 — Wed, 27 May 2009 05:38:47 -0400

My fiance and I have talked about it and even talked to some couples but haven't gone any further. I am curious about it and even have fantasies but afraid it will cause problems if we pursue it.

I want to make my partnership stronger.

What does love mean to you?

torrieg — Tue, 19 May 2009 17:30:04 -0400

According to the dictionary Love means 1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. 2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend. 3.sexual passion or desire. 4. a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart. What is your deffinition of love, what do you mean when you say it and how do you show it? Just curious to see your answers!

I want to meet someone and fall in love.

How do I find a woman who will see past the wheelchair and see ME?

Bones — Sat, 09 May 2009 12:28:32 -0400

Most women I've been attracted to see me as a 'job' because of the chair. Others see dollar signs. I'm self sufficient and have been since 1994. Take me as I am or not at all.

I want to meet someone and fall in love.

Is it wrong that sleeping with married men turns me on?

torrieg — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 21:41:29 -0400

I had an affair with a married friend of mine not to long ago, and I must admit that it was hotter then hell. I was engaged at the time and although the sex with my friend wasn't as good as it was with my boy friend I wanted it more! The thought of getting caught by his wife or my soon to be husband was so hot! Not to mention the things we did to avoid getting caught. He moved a few months ago but we still talk and want to get together. Is this normal to get this turned on by married men, even when I know I should be disgusted.

I want to rev up my sex life.

Why doesn't my wife tell me her fantasies?

AlaricRoman — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 22:16:43 -0400

I have great sex fantasies. Other than a few milder ones, I don't want to act them all out. I would like to be able to share them with my wife and for her to tell me hers. Could it be she's has none? I've hinted/asked/begged her to tell me and she just says she doesn't really have any.

I want to rev up my sex life.

Am I frustrating myself for no good reason?

SanSerif — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 13:47:43 -0400

Now, I admit, I am NOT an experienced lass. Very much the exact opposite. My current boyfriend has been the only person I've been intimate with, and even that only for about six months total. In fact, I'm pretty sure this is an integral part, if not the main cause of the problem, so bear this in mind.

I can't get him to orgasm. No, seriously. I fail at that part of sexing. The boy can outlast me in any form of rompery.

Dirty talk? I grew up in an uber conservative Christian household where sex is as much taboo as um, something that is very taboo. Give me some time here.

Blowjobs? Upwards of an hour or more and even then, I'm the one whose calling it quits due to lip numbing, tongue tingling, and general jaw cramping. He says that I do give good head, but sometimes, a girl's gotta wonder, especially when she has no other experience to compare it with.

Handjob? Not even worth trying, except as a way to keep things stimulated during a blowjob break. At least with a bj I can get him to twitch.

Intercourse? Okay, this part is probably the most affected from lack of experience. This being the first boy I've been with, I don't have much in my repertoire, even though I do try. And he can go for hours there too, faster than I can go at the moment. Most frustrating.

It also doesn't help that he doesn't make sounds, give directions or do anything besides the occasional twitch.

Yes, I have talked to him about it. His advice? "Just keep doing what you are doing, but longer."

AARRRGH!!!

Its especially frustrating when he knows allll the ways to get me to squirm, has moved halfway across the country to be with me, and is, in all other ways, completely awesome as a boyfriend.

I just want to return the favor. >:[

I want to make my partnership stronger.

He falls asleep when Im trying to arouse him...Is this normal?

Elizabeth41 — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 12:28:16 -0400

We have been dating for six months.Our first time sleeping together was not the greatest One week after we first became intimate he was in a car accident and broke his ribs. During the healing process we used other means of pleasuring each other.When we finally could make love again it took us awhile to figure out what worked for each other and in the last month we have finally got it but lately he has been working overtime(12 hour days ) and when we do finally get alone time together I start to get him aroused to take it further and he will fall asleep on me. Then I get mad and if he tries to wake me up for sex in the morning I will cut him off.I feel that if he was that into me he would be able to stay awake to give me what I want. He says that it relaxes him when I'm doing it and he cant help it .What can i do to get him to stay awake ?

I want to rev up my sex life.

My girlfriend cheated on me twice and now she is saying shes in love, whats going on?

JSC — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:16:58 -0500

I've been with my girlfriend over three years, and in the first two she cheated on me twice. I still have problems coping with it but she swears she loves me and will never do it again. How do you know if she is being honest or just stringing me out?

I want to rev up my sex life.

My husband is not interested in sex anymore??

klh81 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 11:33:40 -0500

I've been married for almost 4 years. I have always been the more sexual person. My husband and I finally ended a custody dispute with his ex wife after 5 yrs. (We have full custody still of there child). We had to spend a lot of our savings and it was very hard financially to even buy a loaf of bread or milk. He says he's worried about the house getting back on our feet? My husband seems now to have forgotten about me. I will admit I have gained a little bit of weight but he says it doesn't bother him. I have tried to wear sexy outfits and even talk dirty to him. Whatever I do it seems not to work. All he says is that our marriage doesn't revolve around sex. I'm so sexually frustrated right now... I know he's not cheating because he could loose his career in the military and 12 yrs lost is not in store for him. Please what do I do???

I want to rev up my sex life.

cant seem 2 have an orgasm wen makin love 2 my husband.why?

foxy — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 15:12:02 -0500

I want to rev up my sex life.

A girl is open to one night stand, what do guys do to get picked?

tmendez1985 — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 17:57:30 -0500

I want to rev up my sex life.

If you i want to have sex and he's tired all the time, what should i do?

tmendez1985 — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 17:54:57 -0500

I want to rev up my sex life.

French Kiss

CrazyFly — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:29:16 -0500

What is the best way to french kiss a woman?? in a way that will make her body tingle, and take her breath away?

I want to rev up my sex life.

I want more Sex

b132398 — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 21:20:33 -0500

I currently work on the road, and only get to go home at the most for 1 and 1/2 days a week. When I am home I have a good sex life but something is missing and I want more

I want to rev up my sex life.

have a boy cheted on you

tete — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 13:05:18 -0500

well i seen the boy online but we went to the movies together and then he never texted me back. i think that he's cheting on me

I want to get over my ex and start a new life.

Why does my boyfriend watch porn after we have sex?

Raevyn20 — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 23:17:35 -0500

3 yrs ago we had our first baby thats when the whole porn issue started. He would rather masturbate than come to me... He kept his porn secret and when I confronted him, he would tell me things that no woman likes to hear... like Im not attractive anymore, Im fat, I need to workout, he would say that he couldnt get aroused by lookin at me anymore ect...which I put up with for 8 months before I left.... we got back together 2 months later and he changed he apologized for what was said an done... and since then weve had another boy, and things stayed the same we still had sex and none of the harsh language... but he hasnt givin up the porn even though he knows how it makes me feel. Everytime I leave the house hes online lookin at porn. He may clear the history but theres other evidence he dont do so well at hiding... I do laundry... Even if we just had sex Ive told him time and again that I dont like it and why but he tells me that he dont own it... But we have the internet... If things start to get boring we try new things an he knows Im willing to please him. I ask what if I need to improve an IF he tells me I do without gettin offended.
So my problem lies with whether or not I truely satisfy him or not. Why would he need porn if I do everything he asks? And why everyday? I want to be enough for him. Ive even offered to watch it with him. Some men want their wives or girlfriends to watch it right... Im offering and he still says no... it embarasses him... So what is it? Does he desire me? And its not like I want him to give it up all together.... Hes a man... but once in a while isnt an option.
I cant talk to him bout any of this because it start a fight and he wont talk but it truely bothers me to the point that i wonder if hed be happier with another woman...

I want to rev up my sex life.

Spend a night with an ex?

Janie Ill — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 18:08:21 -0500

I have been married for four years. My husband is great -- he is a good person, caring and kind -- but I have never been attracted to him. In fact, I ended up marrying him as a rebound from a difficult relationship with a man who I considered the love of my life. We just were not on the same page, and after he changed his mind repeatedly about getting married and moving in together, I dropped him. I married my husband less than a year and a half later because he was a good, stable person. Unfortunately the sparks are not there. My ex has resurfaced, and has changed. I am very attracted to him, but I don't want to start a relationship. I just want sex and then live my life with my husband. Should I go for it?

I want to get over my ex and start a new life.

How can I have vaginal orgasms more?

sexysiren — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 22:46:53 -0500

I have a hard time coming during intercourse and want to orgasm without clitoral stimulation.

I want to rev up my sex life.

HOW TO SEDUCE YOUR MAN

sly — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 09:08:10 -0500

I WANT TO MAKE MY MAN TO FEEL ME&I THINK IT TIME FOR US TO MAKE LOVE

I want to rev up my sex life.

Should I stay or should I go?

Deeply Hurt — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 13:05:03 -0500

It's a very looong story. Basically, my marriage seems to really be failing. It used to seem completely perfect to me for the past 4-5 years until last April. We came back from a trip and my husband told me he wanted me to lose weight because he was concerned about my health. I was hurt but happy he came to me, I want him to know he can always talk to me. Anyway, I was hurt but accepted it. The thing is things have gone down hill since then. We have almost NO love life, he refuses to do anything for me at all. I am a stay at home mother of 2 and he is a hard worker. I understand that, but he is completely unreliable, ghe does absolutely nothing to help out.. His own mother will admit that. I cook, clean, take care of the kids, mow the lawn, do all yard work and repairs, absoluetly EVERYTHING right to cleaning up behind him and giving HIS dog the needles and other medication that he needs. It just seems he's pushing me away on purpose yet he still claims to love me. I'm having Lap-Band surgery soon to lose weight (not just for him but for myself too) which his parents are paying for. I feel during recouperation he'll be of no help at all. I don't want to leave and risk hurting his parents, also because I love him. I just know I deserve more and can keep living like this, it's not right. I could go on and on but this is the jest of things. Any opinions?

I want to rev up my sex life.

got rejected

tekwuz — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 22:41:40 -0500

i've been talking to this lady for a while now. she laughs at my corny jokes most of the time and giving me the smile every time i glanced upon her. i asked her out to have lunch with me, and she immediately said yes and gave her phone number.. a couple of days later, i've seen her again and try to confirm if she wants to go. lo and behold, she informed me that she has a school errand that she has to do and told me to reschedule the lunch date for next week, and she'll let me know instead. when she finished uttering her last word, i simply walked away. i don't normally dwell on a girl and ask for another date after rejecting my first attempt. i don't have any problem flirting and getting dates from other women. it's just that i kind of like this girl, and i feel like we have some kind of connection going on. should i ask for another date or just entertain other women who would love to go out with me instead? thanks for your insights.

I want to get over my ex and start a new life.

Should I be scared?

staraka — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 12:24:02 -0500

I've never ever got that floating feeling, or had anyone aside from my family, make me feel so complete so happy. I'm more comfortable with myself now than I've ever been and now this new guy I'm dating, is like a gift from God. It must be wrong to feel this incredible, to fall in love like this. And that's what kind of makes me doubt, I mean I've dated some real jerks and I can't help but think that my faith in this new relationship isn't strong enough. I want this, because it feels so right. But is it too good to be true? He tells me all the time that he loves to make me laugh, and that my happiness is of the upmost importance to him. My sister says I shouldn't be scared and to just live because only time will tell. And I respect that. What do you think?

Thanks.

I want to get over my ex and start a new life.

The girl I am seeing doesn't like doggy style!

CrazyFly — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:09:47 -0500

I love to take my girl in doggy style, but this girl I am seeing these days doesn't like it. Is there any way to get her around to liking this position? And how do I make it comfortable for her.

I want to rev up my sex life.

Can you give me some sexy songs to make love to

libbydawn — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:31:18 -0500

Hubby and I are great, he's my best friend we've been married 9 years. Love him to pieces. But, in the bedroom things have slowed down a little. Give me some slow to moderate nice love making type songs I can download. I could be a sexaholic realllll easy and he just isn't that into sex. Never has been. But hitting a peak or something. I swear all the sudden I feel like at 16 year old boy ready to attack anything! How can I perk him up....hmmmm pun MAY be intended there haha!

I want to rev up my sex life.

isnt right if you will invite your ex boyfriend to have sex knowing that he left you before

gurl in black — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 21:18:59 -0500

i invite my ex to have sex with even though that he left me alone before and knowing that he has a girlfriendfor 3 years

I want to rev up my sex life.

my boyfriend doesn't kiss me as much should i worry?

love19 — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 19:30:46 -0500

well, when we first meet about a month he was really into kissing me, but now that we have other contacts like real sex he doesn't kiss me that much. i even asked him to kiss me he does it but not the way he was doing before. i mean french kiss :b now its just a lip kiss which dont turn me on as much as the french one does. does it mean he doesn't love me any more or what?

I want to rev up my sex life.

Does our heart have space for being in love with two women at the same time?

Tabucito — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:40:24 -0500

I want to get over my ex and start a new life.

Why am I in love with someone so bad for me?

Sun, 01 Nov 2009 15:06:46 -0500

I have been in a codependent nightmare for two years. He yells at me. He is always upset with me. He calls me names (fat, stupid, many expletives follow).

We have nothing in common. I am a college graduate. He spent 7 years in prison for drug dealing. None of my friends like him. My roommate has threatened to kick me out if I continue to see him. I had to move out of my last apartment because my landlord told me either he goes or I go. My family hates him. I hate all his friends. When I am out, I frequently get verbally abused by people that he knows. He's over 40 and living in a friend's guest room because he refuses to stop gambling and drinking long enough to get his life straightened out.

And yet I collapse when I think about this ending. I love him so much and I am SO physically attracted to him. He won't have sex with me often anymore because he says he doesn't love me anymore. I deserve better - so what is wrong with me? I am afraid I will not be attracted to anyone else. I want to be with him, but I just can't suffer anymore.

I want to get over my ex and start a new life.

One night stand vs. relationship

Atlguy39 — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 10:39:07 -0400

OK, I have a dilemma here. I'm a relationship guy by nature and recently divorced (separated in Feb). We were together a total of 7 years.

I'm also currently unemployed. While I'm finally ready to date, the unemployment is really holding me back not only financially, but in my confidence in approaching women. I won't approach them because I very self conscious and don't want to talk about my employment situation.

My friends tell me I'm good looking and that I should just go out and get laid and not be concerned with being unemployed. They say it makes no difference if I'm just looking to get laid. But I've always looked at any woman I've considered talking to from a relationship standpoint and not a one night stand. I also think if I'm not working, that I don't have enough to offer and shouldn't even approach a woman. Am I just over analyzing to think that a woman wouldn't be interested in me at all (including one night stands) because I'm unemployed? How should I approach this? Inevitably, the employment situation will come up in conversation. I mean, I'm a professional having career issues right now and this is very common right now. Am I putting too much pressure on myself?

I want to get over my ex and start a new life.

love to meet new people

jackdaniels3165 — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:40:55 -0400

i like to go out and explore things meet interisting people and have fun i like being single do lots things i can be happy hope meet rite girl for me and can do things together be happy me and her together , i like some one do things thats we like together go place together explore one another see what we like in command one another also going out place being romantic to your woman and staying happy im about 5/8 italian brown eyes tan im very out going guy hope meet rite person i have ver good sence humor to

I want to rev up my sex life.

What am I doing wrong?

Mikey_205 — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 18:51:28 -0400

I find that as Im growing older (just left uni and started work) Im becomingly increasingly depressed with the state of my love life.

To date Ive never had a girlfriend, never had sex, never gone beyond snogging. Im really starting to worry that theres something wrong like some defect I havent noticed.

Im not an ugly guy and Im fairly clever and successful and I could get girls on nights out sure but whenever its someone I really like or in one case loved its always unrequited. Ive started to notice Im becoming really bitter which I was never like before.

I just want to experience the fun of being in a relationship, the excitement, actually being in love with someone and have them feel the same way.

I really need some suggestions on what to do because Im not happy about it and when I think about it I really get depressed. Its strange because Im happy with every other part of my life and I have no troubles. But this issue has been at the forefront of my mind for a while and it always surfaces when I have spare time.

I want to rev up my sex life.

Should I call this guy back? After 2 dates that I thought were fun, he has not called back

Looking56 — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 15:30:00 -0400

I am a widow. A friend of my late husbands called me and asked me out. We went out to dinner and then played some pool (I won 2 games ,he won 2 games).We called it a night. He said he had fun and we should do it again. He didn't call,so after 4 days I called him and invited him to my place for dinner. He came over, we ate, talked, flirted but nothing happened, not even a kiss.He said we should get together again some time. Now it's been a week and a half and no communication from him. I'm not real sure what to think. Did I turn him off some where along the line?