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Top 5 life changing books to read in 2013

Top 5 life changing books to read in 2013

New publications that can transform how you see yourself and the world.

The following was originally published in Examiner.com: Get a new perspective for 2013. It's now February but it's not too late to start changing your mind towards a healthier mindset. Just like exercise, how you perceive and think about the world can affect your sense of well-being. Here are some titles to get started:

Yes, You Can!

Yes, You Can!

Don't let others limit your goals and keep you from making your dreams reality.

Do people limit themselves?  When asking that question hundreds of times the answer is invariably yes.  One of the reasons coaching is so effective is that the coach is completely focused on the client and the success of the client – the coach believes in the client’s abilities.  With that kind of unconditional support the client is empowered to move past their own doubts and the concerns that arise.

6 Steps For Overcoming Obstacles With Teens

6 Steps For Overcoming Obstacles With Teens

What do you do when you hit a 'brick wall'? Go from being stuck to accomplishing your goal. (EXPERT)

“Experience is what you get when you didn’t get what you wanted.  It’s a phrase worth considering at every brick wall we encounter, and at every disappointment.  It’s a reminder that failure is not just acceptable, it’s often essential.”  Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture

Set Reasonable Expectations & Watch Your Kids Soar

Set Reasonable Expectations & Watch Your Kids Soar

Your kids will achieve more when expectations are raised, one notch at a time.

What does raising the bar look like for you?  What expectations do you have for your children? Setting high expectations is a good thing, as long as the bar isn't out of reach. Some of the students I teach have trouble with organization and keeping track of assignments.  Meetings with parents of middle schoolers and guidance sometimes result in a long list of things the child is supposed to accomplish or master.

How To Raise Expectations For Kids & Get Results

How To Raise Expectations For Kids & Get Results

Do you raise the bar for your kids, but they don't rise to it? A little tweaking will get them going

What does raising the bar look like for you?  What expectations do you have for your children? Setting high expectations is a good thing, as long as the bar isn't out of reach. Some of the students I teach have trouble with organization and keeping track of assignments.  Meetings with parents of tweens and guidance sometimes result in a long list of things the child is supposed to accomplish or master.

7 Ways To Make Real Change In The New Year

7 Ways To Make Real Change In The New Year

Don’t Make New Years Resolutions! There is nothing like failure to discourage you from changing.

Happy New Year! Have you made your New Years Resolutions yet? Most of us at least consider doing so. Here are 7 steps you can take to make real and meaningful change in the new year: 1. Don’t make grandiose New Years resolutions. There is nothing like failure to discourage you and lead you to sabotage your effort to change. Don’t say you are going to loose 10 pounds a month. Don’t say you are going to go to the gym 7 days a week if you know you have a very busy life and that’s not likely to happen.

No. 1 Secret To Successful New Year's Resolutions

No. 1 Secret To Successful New Year's Resolutions

To be more successful you have to change to a higher level of thinking.

Whew, January 1, 2013. I didn’t think we’d make it this far. The Mayans said that December 21, 2012 was the end of time – astrological events were supposed to wipe out most of earth’s inhabitants. In some ways I wish the Mayan’s were right, then I wouldn’t have to face the annual task of developing New Year’s resolutions only to have them fail.

An Intimate New Year's Activity

An Intimate New Year's Activity

Are you looking for the perfect intimate New Year’s activity for you and your significant-other?

Are you looking for the perfect intimate New Year’s activity for you and your significant-other? Look no further. This 4-Step activity I’m outlining below can be used for either personal reflection, as a group activity on New Year’s Eve, or for an open and intimate conversation with that special person in your life. For best results, I recommend going through this process alone the first time before sharing your responses with others.

A Little Less Shame, A Lot More Love

A Little Less Shame, A Lot More Love

SHAME- a common emotion that no one admits to. Don't let it limit your life! Take back the power.

We can learn so much from our pets, in their innocence and purity of heart. They enjoy every moment, they are always excited about the future, and, most of all, they are completely shameless. They live in the present moment, carry no guilt or negative emotions over their actions of the past and, no matter what, they love well. My beautiful puppy Ethan thinks nothing of rolling over and exposing his soft underbelly to be rubbed, whether to me or a complete stranger. He is not ashamed to show who he is, or ask for what he wants.

Do You Need to Take Your Bucket List Up a Notch?

Do You Need to Take Your Bucket List Up a Notch?

FIgure out what else you can do with your life that you may have never imagined before.

by Karen S. Exkorn, for GalTime.com   We all have different sides to us, right?  But do we always embrace them? The truth is, I almost wrote Fifty Two Shades of Blue-ish (a parody of the book you know well) under a pseudonym.  Why?  Because I was afraid.  Close and caring friends and colleagues echoed my fears.  “Are you sure you want to write this book under your own name?” they

7 Questions To Create Super Problem-Solver Kids (EXPERT)

7 Questions To Create Super Problem-Solver Kids (EXPERT)

When kids are good problem-solvers they become self-sufficient and confident, every parent's dream.

  Kids have come to rely heavily on parents and teachers to do their thinking for them.  They have become unwilling, or unable, to go beyond rote learning. In the classroom, lesson plans and curriculum are now strongly influenced by 'essential questions'.  These questions engage students in evaluating, analyzing and applying knowledge to better understand, and function in, their world.  They encourage students to think critically, instead of simply looking up facts.