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GETTING OVER A BREAKUP

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Take Control Of Your 'Parts' To Finally Move On [EXPERT]
Don't be afraid to boss your 'Parts' around! After all, they do work for YOU!

Take Control Of Your 'Parts' To Finally Move On [EXPERT]

Find out why getting over your ex is easier said than done!

Here's a hard truth; are you ready? There are parts of you that guarantee you will never get what you want most. Ever said something like, "Part of me is ready to move on from my ex, but part of me can’t stop obsessing about him or her," or “Part of me is ready for a great relationship, but part of me thinks I don't deserve it yet?” If so, it's because you actually have a lot of "Parts" inside you. Some that are designed to get you what you want most, and others that are designed to stop you from getting those things. You’ve got a myriad of Parts within you. Parts are like worker bees to your queen bee. Each Part works diligently for you, yet each one carries out a differing intention or belief of yours and thus they can be at odds with each other. This very human phenomenon is called a “Parts Conflict.”

Why Can't I Stop Thinking About My Ex?
Why Can't I Stop Thinking About My Ex?

Why Can't I Stop Thinking About My Ex? [VIDEO]

How to get over a painful relationship and move on from an ex.

After a painful breakup, there are plenty of ways to deal with the emotions you're feeling: you can cry them out, distract yourself from them or immediately try to replace them with happy thoughts. But, if it's months later and you still can't seem to shake those sad feelings or memories of your ex, what are you supposed to do? Can You Be Friends With An Ex? [VIDEO]

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Can a new hairstyle really help you move on from an ex?

Can A Post-Breakup Haircut Help Heal A Broken Heart? [EXPERT]

One Expert tackles the question: can changing your appearance help you get over your ex?

Many pop culture examples point to the external "breakovers" women engage in following a breakup. Is there really something to this? Can cutting our hair or buying a new outfit help us get to a place of being "over" an ex?

Will Erasing Your Ex's Footprint Mend Your Broken Heart? [EXPERT]
Cheers to healing your heart strings pronto!

Will Erasing Your Ex's Footprint Mend Your Broken Heart? [EXPERT]

Does out of sight, out of mind hold true for breakups?

You’ve removed any pre-breakup photos from your frames, packed up every picture, re-gifted your teddy bears and torn up your love notes! So why after virtually erasing your ex... are you still struggling to mend your broken heart? Despite your efforts to rid your environment of every physical aspect of your ex, relationships leave you with emotional inventory that can’t be cleared with a keystroke like the history cache on your computer.

Relationship rules

Relationship rules

Me and my ex boyfriend had been together for 3 years when things started changing (that's how I came across your article, trying to find out how to win your ex boyfriend back. At first it was me who was feeling the cracks - things like we didn't go out very often and we had fallen into a weekly routine which made it feel like the sparkle was missing from our relationship.

He only told me the truth after it was all over

He only told me the truth after it was all over

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. We fell in love instantly and very deeply, for both of us it was faster and deeper than before, and we both never loved anyone so much. I wanted to follow up on your how to get a guy back article, particularly about long distance stuff.

I'm in limbo with my relationship

I'm in limbo with my relationship

Me and my ex were inseperable for 6 years, we were crazy in love, lived together, tried on rings. We were part of each other's family, we considered ourselves a 'little practice family'. He found me when I was, more or less, homeless and kind of a loser. He invested in me, got me back on my feet, it was wonderful. I went back to college, got a full scholarship and have done phenomenally. We had planned to marry after college and went house shopping.

Why is my boyfriend so hot and cold all the time?

Why is my boyfriend so hot and cold all the time?

I read your article on how to get your ex boyfriend back. I would love some help if you have time. My situation is a little different. I met an older man online through a website that we both had the same interest in four months ago. He's in his late 30s, I'm in my 20s. We started emailing generally for about a month then we caught each other online. The first few times we chatted for a couple hours and neither of us even usually chatted.

After one argument, my boyfriend says he wants to break up

After one argument, my boyfriend says he wants to break up

I'm having a bit of a hard time and I need some good advice and reassurance. Tuesday of this past week, my boyfriend and I were fine and all. Suddenly, we started arguing and then he said he wanted to break up because he is tired of being on a roller coaster, because we had been arguing and stuff for a couple months. We've been dating for almost a year and a half. We are juniors in high school.

My ex boyfriend says he needs time before we get back together

My ex boyfriend says he needs time before we get back together

Okay, so prior to reading your article, I broke all of the cardinal rules. Of course I did. But, this is what happened. My ex boyfriend and I have known each other for years, but we have been dating for a short amount of time. Within that time. I'd lied to him about a coupled things, I don't really have an excuse other than the fact that I was scared to become attatched to someone. I didn't want to end up hurt, so I always ran from te problems.