He Felt Trapped: You Got Dumped
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He Felt Trapped: You Got Dumped

How can you make a guy not feel trapped?   What type of things should you change in order to make him feel more comfortable? guys get weird when it comes to commitment, they often hear a voice in their heads telling them lies about you. Of course how on earth would you know what he is thinking, they act like everything is A Okay until out of the blue they just end the relationship. You call them text them try everything possible to reach them but they just shut down completely on you.

Are You Guilty Of Drama Dumping?
Seriously? It's not that bad.
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Are You Guilty Of Drama Dumping?

Does drama follow you everywhere? It might be because you've never really worked on replacing bad behaviors with more positive ones. Don't let a communication gap end in a breakup: learn to argue fairly.

Breakup Advice: 10 Steps To Moving On
It's time to stop moping!
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What To Do When He Disappears: 10 Steps To Moving On

You're desperately in love with him, but suddenly, he seems disinterested. You haven't heard from him for a few days. You replay all of your recent conversations, reread your texts and wonder why. But none of this is productive. If he doesn't have the courtesy to let you know what's going on, you shouldn't concern yourself with him. And that's the first step to getting over him.

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Turns out, my breakup was just what I needed.
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Why Getting Dumped Was The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me

When I was in high school, one of my favorite teachers told me that nothing worthwhile is easily attained. And I believed it — except when it came to men. Eventually I realized that some guys are special, and I shouldn't be changing them as often as I change my underwear. I would find a nice guy to commit to… but so many guys were nice. I decided I'd find a nice one until I found a nicer one. I'd become a serial monogamist.

I'm in Love, and Geez It Hurts!
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I'm in Love, and Geez It Hurts!

Drum roll, please! Here’s my TOP TEN LIST OF BEST-DOWN-IN-THE-DUMPS-ABOUT-LOVE songs.    1.    I’m So Lonesome I Could Cry - Hank Williams 2.    Love Hurts – Roy Orbison   3.    She’s Out of My Life – Michael Jackson 4.    In My Life – The Beatles   5.    Unbreak My Heart – Toni Braxton 6.    Even Now – Barry Manilow

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Behold: the post-heartbreak slim-down.
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The 'Revenge Diet': How Far Is Too Far?

We've all experienced it: the breakup hunger strike, a.k.a the revenge diet. Sometimes, you're so upset that you can't even stomach the thought of eating, nevermind actually do it. Other times, you think the best way to get back at the person who devastated you is to drop a ton of weight and look fabulous. After all, they say that happiness is the best revenge, right?

Greta Gerwig as Lola and Joel Kinnaman as Luke in 'Lola Versus.'
Greta Gerwig as Lola and Joel Kinnaman as Luke in 'Lola Versus.'
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'Lola Versus' Review: Don't Ditch Your Friends If You Get Dumped

We all have that one friend who went through the breakup she cannot stop talking about. If it was three weeks ago, you get it. It's still raw. If it was three months ago, okay. You figure she and her ex were together for awhile. She thought she'd found The One. Of course it still hurts. But after three months, well, it's time for your friend to shut up already, if you even hang out anymore.

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"He destroyed my heart, and since he doesn't have a heart, I smashed his guitar."
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Angry Single Blogger: How To Smash Your Ex's Stuff, Guilt-Free

It's embarrassing how many phones I've gone through because I threw them in a fit of rage over a certain guy. It's also nothing to brag about that I've gone through most of my glasses because I've smashed them to bits in anger over the same guy, then, because that wasn't enough, I jumped on his guitar in my favorite heels and destroyed it.

Getting Dumped Could Be The Best Thing To Happen To You
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Getting Dumped Could Be The Best Thing To Happen To You

I was telling a friend about my blog recently, and while I was explaining why I’m so passionate about wanting to help women out there to avoid the heartbreak that I experienced during my single days, I had an epiphany. About all that heartbreak. I realized it’s actually a gift. You heard me right. A gift. Something to be cherished. Something to be happy about.

My Oh-So Sturdy Camelback:  Will There Ever Be a Last Straw?
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My Oh-So Sturdy Camelback: Will There Ever Be a Last Straw?

by Julie Robinson   Jail was the furthest thing from my mind as I went about my day after Todd was a “no call / no show” for what would have been our second date.  In fact, I didn’t give him much thought at all during the week after our aborted day in the park with the dog and a Frisbee.  Is it possible I’ve actually gotten used to being stood up?  Besides, he wasn’t as cute as I thought he would be based on his picture.  Damn, he sure could kiss, though.  Todd

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Stop crying and get yourself to Happy Hour!
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12 Super-Fun Steps To Getting Over A Breakup

Heartbreak lingers like a hangover. You wake up but don't want to move, and your head is spinning. Sometimes you need the greasiest pizza down the street has to offer, and sometimes you can't eat at all. The only thing that sounds appealing is crawling into a dark cave away from anything (which is everything) that reminds you how sh**ty you feel. We get it.