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3 Questions to Ask Before Entering the GLBT Workforce
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3 Questions to Ask Before Entering the GLBT Workforce

Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) Professionals have a lot of considerations in today's ever changing workforce.  Decisions vary depending on whether you are out in your personal life and/or professional life.  They can also vary depending on the industry within which you work.  The following 3 Reflection Questions can serve as a stepping off point for GLBT professionals facing these sometimes daunting challenges.    

Dealing with Mixed Messages from a Man
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Dealing with Mixed Messages from a Man

Dating a guy who sends mixed messages is not only counter-productive, but it’s also frustrating, confusing and severely annoying. Unfortunately, it’s a part of the dating game and it’s something all of us have dealt with at one point or another. So when it happens, how do you deal with it? This week, one of our followers asks:   Dear @Instigaytor,

Does Gay Marriage Affect Straight Marriage?
Does their marriage affect yours?
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Does Gay Marriage Affect Straight Marriage?

While the jury is still out on whether or not the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) will still stand, how can this affect straight marriages, already acknowledged by law? What is it about the idea of gay marriage that seems to threaten people so much that they try to pass laws against it?

How To Talk To Your Gay Teen About Sex
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How To Talk To Your Gay Teen About Sex

Invincible, proud, determined, excited and waving the rainbow flag. That's often the stereotypical view of a teen that comes out of the closet. On the other hand, they also often feel isolated, afraid, broken and not quite capable of fitting in. Regardless of the perspective, there can be one small, yet very large perception that get's overlooked and leads teens into sexual hot water!

Gay Marriage — Come Out, Come Out, Wherever you Are!
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Gay Marriage — Come Out, Come Out, Wherever you Are!

Larry Cappel is a trained relationship coach and a licensed marriage and family therapist. He can be reached through his website if you'd like to talk about any aspect of your relationship. Olly olly, oxen free! In the children’s game Hide and Seek, the players stay hidden until found or called to come out of their hiding spots. As adults, if we stay hidden we pay a high price for our invisibility.

Cocky vs. Confident...What's Gay got to do with it?
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Cocky vs. Confident...What's Gay got to do with it?

Have you ever met a person that they moment they open their mouth you think, “What a cocky #@$%!” Mr. Swagger with the "Hey babes," dropping like flies The Gal with the chastity belt so tight that she reeks of Essence de' BITCH And, of course the "I've got the answer for everything and you don't" person Irritating, frustrating, and completely draining. Yet, on the other hand, might there just be a chance that these people are confident and not cocky assholes?

Gay Hearts Desire
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Gay Hearts Desire

Sexual, kinky, all about the chase, never about love. Really? That’s who you are? No? Oh, then you must be talking about gay men! Whew! I wouldn’t want to mistake any of you heterosexuals as being like gay men, especially this close to Valentine’s Day.

Homosexuality Is Not An Addiction But A Choice
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Homosexuality Is Not An Addiction But A Choice

Let's be honest. Manti Te'o and your stalker please leave the news headlines. I'm sure Manti would appreciate that. And as for the confused Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, while molestation may have led to some of your actions, being gay is in the DNA and not to be compared to a "drug addiction." If you want to be cured then go to a liars anonymous group to be healed or continue to chat with Dr. Phil because he's bound to get you straightened out.