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Bring Lots of Friends When You Need Support
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Bring Lots of Friends When You Need Support

Facing a Nerve-Racking Event When you're worried about an upcoming event that will require a great deal of inner stamina and courage, you've undoubtedly been told that you should bring one or two family members or friends for support. What I'd like to suggest, however, is that you consider bringing a whole bunch of people. You can even do it without taking up any space in the place you're going to go. How? Let me tell you my experience. Perhaps it will give you an idea you can apply to yourself some day.

It's actually upsetting to be put here in this spot
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It's actually upsetting to be put here in this spot

Friend yells at a friend in anger. Friend wonders if there is something hidden behind fight A guy I consider a great friend and I were talking 2 nights ago when he told me he would just rather stop talking to me if I discussed what I was hearing about an old friend of his with him. We both have a mutual friend we no longer are affiliated with, but I try to remain at least civil with the situation by discussing it, just out of the goodness of respecting what the other person is goign through. I was.. to say the least SHOCKED by my friend.when he totally blew a hot fuse about me bringing it up.

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Anything is Possible

Where do you think you’ll be in 2015? Where would you like to be? Think about it carefully, thoughtfully. Drift into Possibility Thinking mode. Feels wonderful, right? One of the most precious gifts we’re given as human beings is our ability to create our own destiny or vision. It’s a crime that so many people never accept this gift. Others prefer to just give it away, making someone else responsible for it. Think about what you can get done in the next five years. The possibilities are endless, aren’t they? Think about where you were and what you were doing back in 2005. Look at what has changed since then. For most of us, quite a lot. I have a question for you… What are you thinking about doing right now that might take some time to come to make happen? Are you working on a degree or certification? Are you considering taking that dream vacation you’ve being dreaming about for so long? Do you want to change careers? Do you want to lose some weight?

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How To Date In The Present

Picture this: It's the second course of an exquisite meal on your second date with an exquisite guy. From his first Match.com wink you thought to yourself, "he seems too good to be true" but, lo and behold, the real-life version measured up to his digital one. As you take in every one of his charming words, mesmerized by the way his lips wrap around his wine glass, you drift into fantasyland thinking, "Wow, he would make an amazing softball coach to our kids. I wonder if he's available the second weekend of June to go to my cousin's wedding. He's a guy I would give up my last name for." But you know what he's thinking? He's thinking, "I wonder if my roommate is home. Man, her cleavage is hot. We should probably switch from wine to liquor so she doesn't get sleepy and pass out on my sofa." His thoughts are nothing like yours... and as much as we hate to admit it, given how well you know each other (and his testosterone levels), his head is probably the one that's on straight.

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10 Things Happy Couples Talk About

Over the weekend, Psychological Science published a study saying that people are happier when they spend more time discussing meaningful topics than engaging in small talk. Seventy-nine college students had their conversations recorded and analyzed by researchers, who distinguished between chit-chat about the food or the weather from discussions about philosophy, education, or religion. Subjects who reported the greatest amount of satisfaction spent only 10 percent of their conversation on small talk, while the unhappiest subjects kept 28.3 of their talking time in the shallow end.

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Texting Your Way To Love

Want to know what it's like to date in the 21st century? Check out this animated video that accurately depicts flirting, sex and dating in the technology age.