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The First 5 minutes…and beyond.

The First 5 minutes…and beyond.

“Catching a man’s attention and keeping a man’s interest are two completely different things.”

You’re a woman. You KNOW that we men are visual creatures. What does she look like? Woah-dont get whiplash from that head whipping around! Excuse me-my eyes are up HERE! You’ve seen it happen, may be involved in it happening, and may even do some of it yourself (Ryan Gosling, Maxwell…need I say more?).

State Of The Union – Your Union

State Of The Union – Your Union

The President's State of the Union is over – what would be part of yours if given about your union?

In political chambers throughout the country, including in our national Capitol, political leaders give annual addresses to talk about how we are doing and what challenges we need to face in the year ahead.  Thinking about the highlights offered in the State of the Union tonight, there are similar categories that you could use to evaluate your union.  How would you rate your marriage, domes

How Your "Tomorrow Me" Can Help You Today!

How Your "Tomorrow Me" Can Help You Today!

Find your own clear, infallible voice that helps you make your best decisions.

Have you ever heard the phrase “Keep doing what you’re doing, get more of what you got,” made popular by Werner Erhard? Either way, you will soon see why this truth begs an introduction to what I call your “tomorrow me.” That’s the YOU that’s here today representing the you of tomorrow (and the next day, and so on).

My Guru Told Me To: Why It Shifted Everything

My Guru Told Me To: Why It Shifted Everything

Living in the past will only hold you back from your future

Last weekend I got the most amazing voicemail from my guru. And when I say guru, I mean guru, the kind that meditate for hours on end, have given up all attachments, and are on the path towards enlightenment. He is 90 years old, looks like he is 60, and has been in my life since I was a small child. As a child, I would hear him speak and feel moved to live my life with ease, gratitude, and happiness. He first came to America from India in 1978, the year I was born, by way of Harvard.

5 Tips To Help Parents Worry Less [EXPERT]
Are you a worrier?

5 Tips To Help Parents Worry Less

Learn to ease your anxiety with this useful advice.

As a parent, you want what is best for your children. You want them to be smarter, better looking and more well-rounded than you are. You want them to be liked by their peers and to succeed in school. As such, you worry. And, with worrying comes anxiety which can turn into depression. Here are five ways to help you stop worrying so much:

How Your Doubts Can Fuel Your Dreams [EXPERT]
Sometimes your doubts can be what your dreams are made of.

How Your Doubts Can Fuel Your Dreams

When you dream about your future, it's okay to be unsure.

Often, when we get in touch with our most heartfelt and hopeful dreams, what may also surface are some of our doubts. There is an important relationship between (what I refer to as) the dreamer and the doubter that live inside of us. It is useful and necessary to develop skills for dealing with our doubt; otherwise your dreams could very well get squelched.

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Is this the prostitute of the future?

Weird Sex News: In 2050, Hookers Will Be Replaced By Robots

Brothels will be full of robotic prostitutes by 2050, according to a recent study.

We bet you anticipate, nay expect, androids to be incorporated into everyday life by 2050 — but we bet you didn't count on the fact that in 2050 our "ladies of the night" could also require oil changes and scratch-resistant coatings.

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I'm sorry, me.

I'm Sorry: 25 Ways To Apologize To Yourself

Do you owe yourself an apology?

Part of finding more dates is getting right with yourself. If you're too busy listening to the conversations in your head, then chances are that opportunities are passing you by right and left. If you are stuck on past failed attempts, how can you be successful at talking to the person right in front of you? When you engage in these destructive behaviors, your relationships continue to suffer.

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Get creative! The sky is the limit when it comes to your New Year theme!

What's Your Theme For 2012?

Where do you see yourself one year from now?

What is your theme for 2012 going to be? I’m not asking what your goals are with accomplishments by dates, or what your resolutions are going to be. Rather, what your vision or dream for the upcoming year is going to be. What do you feel energy or excitement around? What is it that you will be able to wrap yourself around and embrace? What is the thing that you can really connect with? What engages your imagination and feels compelling. That “something” that makes you want to work towards it, give it life, and make it dance!

uncertainty
Its up to you to piece your puzzle together!

Feeling Worried Or Uncertain This Holiday Season?

What are you willing to do to rise above your uncertain circumstances and live the life you deserve?

With 2012 rapidly approaching, many people are talking about how uncertain they are about the future. Uncertainty about the economy, the upcoming elections, the environment....you name it. Is your mind running you ragged with worry? Is uncertainty stealing your peace this Christmas? Do you struggle to plug into your intuitive guidance when you need it most?