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No To Oral Sex?  You Can Still Have A Great Sex Life

No To Oral Sex? You Can Still Have A Great Sex Life

Foreplay is an important part of having a satisfying sexual experience. It is not just about the size of the male partner's penis or how flexible your female partner is. Building up to the final act is an vital part of the whole sexual experience. If you and your partner are pretty much going straight to the sexual intercourse, your sex life will become predictable, and possibly leading to sexual frustration in one or both of the partners. 

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The Myth of the Secret Code

The Myth of the Secret Code

OK, so the title of this blog is misleading. There is no secret code to unlocking a woman’s libido. I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this, but it’s the truth. The one constant about women is that what turns us on is never the same. Never might be stretching the truth a wee bit, but rarely will the same thing turn us on every time. It’s one of the things that is probably the most maddening about us as a species.

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Lingerie, A Powerful Turn-On

Lingerie, A Powerful Turn-On

Most men say sexy lingerie is a big turn-on. Men not only like lingerie in the bedroom, they love to see a tiny bit of lace showing beneath a conservative suit, or through a silk blouse.

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5 Mistakes Men Keep Making In Bed

If you're unhappy with your sex life, is your man making these mistakes?

Here's a secret: Women like having sex. A lot of them love it, and a few even think about it all the time. But their shortcoming is that they often want men to be mind readers. Many women aren't confident enough to ask for what they want in bed, so instead they accept a so-so sex life. Tonight, start a conversation about sex. Talk about the things that turn you on and ask her if there's anything she'd like you to do differently.

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My Boyfriend Doesn't Give Me Foreplay [VIDEO]

Does he move too fast? Watch this.

In the latest video episode of Ask YourTango—where readers seek out advice on love and relationships—sex expert Ian Kerner gives advice to a woman whose boyfriend doesn't give her enough foreplay. Ian shares one tip on how to get your man to to slow down in bed.

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10 Tips on How to be a Great Lover

Here are 10 tips on how to be a great, memorable lover who will be appreciated, desired, admired, wanted, needed and loved. Just follow these steps and you’ll go down in history as one of the world’s greatest lover.

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How long should intercourse last?

How long should intercourse last?

Although the closeness of intercourse feels nice it’s probably not getting most women off. Why? Her clitoris isn’t located inside of her vagina. So simply having penis-vagina intercourse all night long will become boring quick.

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7 Ways To Make Your Love Life More Sensual

For great sex, with or without the big explosions, add some sensuality to your love life.

When you're first dating, you don't know when or even if you're going to make love. The anticipation is exciting, and you often spend quality time kissing and building up to that moment when you finally "do it."