How Important is Oral Sex To You?
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How Important is Oral Sex To You?

  I don't think many women will disagree with the idea that foreplay is a must before having sex with a man for the first time. There's nothing more disappointing than having a man just trying to jump on top of you without giving your some mouth love- dry sex is as uncomfortable as a vending machine tampon. Agreed? Only during quickies should you forego oral sex. Any other time you better expect the man to get on his knees and give you some tongue action. I actually have to come out and admit that oral sex in porn is such a huge turn on. It's so sexy to see a man on his knees eating a woman and watching her get off as he licks her plate clean. It's hot.

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Wait. Size Matters, After All?

One-third of women surveyed in a new study said they are more likely to climax if the man had a longer than average "member," which we suppose makes sense. Further analysis of the results proved that penis size and duration of sexytime all played important factors. But suspiciously absent from the list? Foreplay!

How To Love Your Breasts During Sex
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How To Love Your Breasts During Sex

Women's Health has a great feature this month about bringing your breasts into sex. The piece points out that we talk about breasts all the time, but we're usually talking about the non-sexy aspects of the boob—cancer and breast-feeding for example. But boobs are also a sex organ, and WH lists a bunch ways to enjoy your breasts plus some interesting facts. Here are the best of their tips, plus a few of our own.

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The Wrong Kind Of Foreplay: Using A Loaded Gun

There's nothing wrong with a hot-n-heavy game of dirty cowboy. And according to Deborah Yvette Parker, that's all she and her commonlaw husband, Broderick Craig Crachian, were partaking in when he died of an accidental gunshot wound to the chest. Describing her as "extremely distraught," Parker's court-appointed attorney, Murray Newman, explained to the Houston Chronicle that: "She loves him, and this is just a terrible accident."

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Will Having Sex Make Him Want To Date Me?

Are you interested in a guy emotionally and physically, and wondering if having sex is the way to get him to stick around? YourTango has you covered. America’s Love Experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal are here to answer your relationship questions. They agree that having sex with someone to get them to date you isn’t the greatest idea.

Sex and Intimacy
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Sex and Intimacy

The mind is the largest sex organ in the human body, which is what makes the body fickle when it comes to eroticism. It’s tricky to maintain eroticism and intimacy in long term relationships, because the mind doesn’t forget all the wounds that occur outside the bedroom.

Top Myths Men (And Women!) Have About Sex
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Top Myths Men (And Women!) Have About Sex

For many men, there are some all-too common beliefs about sex that undermine marriages. Les Parrott, Ph.D., author of "Crazy Good Sex" and founder of RealReationships.com, debunks some of the enduring myths men have about sex and offers ways for men to rekindle their relationships and sex lives. Provided by AOL Health. More from AOL Health: Doctors Dish On Sex Questions Coping With A Sexless Marriage Personality Clues: How To Hold Your Glass

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Why We Fantasize And What's Normal

Sexual fantasies are something we rarely discuss, even among good friends. Our deepest sexual thoughts are often considered too weird, perverse, or just plain wrong to be shared amongst polite company; fantasizing might indicate there is something wrong with our relationships, or worse, ourselves. But research indicates that having sexual fantasies is an absolutely normal, if not necessary, part of being a sexual being. It's not having them that is aberrant.

10 Surprising Facts About Kissing
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10 Surprising Facts About Kissing

Forget sex. Kissing can be one of the most intimate, sensual, and just plain fun things you can do with another person. And as anyone who is sex-educated knows: the better the foreplay, the better the sex. Read on to discover ten unusual kissing facts, and be grateful that locking lips no longer leads you to the guillotine.

Tips To Get Men More Into Foreplay
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Tips To Get Men More Into Foreplay

Women have probably internally wondered for centuries why men devour sex like a two-bite appetizer instead of savoring it like a five-course meal. Let's be honest, more times than not a metaphorical bill has arrived before most women have even had a chance to finish buttering their bread. Do they think we don't want foreplay? Are they just super-selfish? Lazy? Take us for granted? Secretly inexperienced? Dr. Brian Parker's explanations and tips to get your fella more interested in foreplay.

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Poll: Dirty Talk: Hot or Creepy?

Poll: Dirty Talk: Hot or Creepy?: Hot. I can't get enough of it. I find it creepy. Why's he telling me this? It doesn't bother me, but it doesn't do anything for me. I like it, but I never know what to say back. I mainly find it funny when he tries to talk sexy.