Lingerie, A Powerful Turn-On
Experts Blog

Lingerie, A Powerful Turn-On

Most men say sexy lingerie is a big turn-on. Men not only like lingerie in the bedroom, they love to see a tiny bit of lace showing beneath a conservative suit, or through a silk blouse.

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Love Buzz

5 Mistakes Men Keep Making In Bed

Here's a secret: Women like having sex. A lot of them love it, and a few even think about it all the time. But their shortcoming is that they often want men to be mind readers. Many women aren't confident enough to ask for what they want in bed, so instead they accept a so-so sex life. Tonight, start a conversation about sex. Talk about the things that turn you on and ask her if there's anything she'd like you to do differently.

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My Boyfriend Doesn't Give Me Foreplay [VIDEO]

In the latest video episode of Ask YourTango—where readers seek out advice on love and relationships—sex expert Ian Kerner gives advice to a woman whose boyfriend doesn't give her enough foreplay. Ian shares one tip on how to get your man to to slow down in bed.

Experts Blog

10 Tips on How to be a Great Lover

Here are 10 tips on how to be a great, memorable lover who will be appreciated, desired, admired, wanted, needed and loved. Just follow these steps and you’ll go down in history as one of the world’s greatest lover.

How long should intercourse last?
Experts Blog

How long should intercourse last?

Although the closeness of intercourse feels nice it’s probably not getting most women off. Why? Her clitoris isn’t located inside of her vagina. So simply having penis-vagina intercourse all night long will become boring quick.

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Love Buzz

The Female Libido: 5 Ways To Turn Yourself On

My libido has never been particularly off the charts but, lately, I've come to feel that—due to the perpetually barren desert between my legs – I'll never find my way out of this vast Sahara of a sex life. It's disconcerting. It's frustrating. But I'm not the only one. Luckily, you can turn your libido around.

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Featured

Why I Chose To Be Celibate

Just a few short years ago, I was your basic art school student, following all the latest trends in indie rock, guzzling PBR, shooting movies, but... not having sex. No, I wasn't a late bloomer and I didn't have trouble relating to women my own age. I was celibate.

Is Steamy Text Messaging The New Foreplay?
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Is Steamy Text Messaging The New Foreplay?

My cell phone is more broke than I am. Over the weekend, I got a case of the butterfingers and dropped it again—now it won't text. Wah! Is it trying to ruin my social/sex life? Without the ability to sext, my game is weak! I know a few dudes are missing my steamy messages. Before you judge typing with one hand, here's why you shouldn't knock it till you've tried it!

"Sexy" Gifts That Women Don't Actually Like
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"Sexy" Gifts That Women Don't Actually Like

Some might say a lacy teddy or a feather tickler is more of a gift for him than for me—selfish, even. But I love sexy holiday gifts. Not only am I a little greedy when it comes to my lingerie drawer, but I love the reminder that my guy thinks I'm a sex goddess! That said, I get why some guys are afraid to shop for lingerie. The best sexy-gift shopping occurs through interpreting another person's fantasies; the gift should really reflect the way the woman sees herself in bed, not the way the man sees his lady. If she's classy, then don't go klassy. In my mind, I'm burlesque star Dita Von Teese in bed, so I'll be bewildered, to say the least, by a present in the style of Boob Job McGee, Tara Reid.

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Tomfoolery

The Best Of The Web: Tiny Apartments & Your Purse

Living together in a really tiny apartment. How to be a bad boyfriend. Chaps who go to all-boys schools become bad boyfriends, usually. What the contents of her purse mean. Learning love from the Jersey Shore. Surprising stats about sex and fidelity. Joy Behar says Rachel Utichel is a hooker (more or less). Maybe monogamy is the unusual thing, hmmm? Delving into the meaning of mixed tapes. Alienation of affection. Loving her feet and disclosing a foot fetish. When you discover someone who is almost, nearly "the one." And why didn't he call you back?

How Important is Oral Sex To You?
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How Important is Oral Sex To You?

  I don't think many women will disagree with the idea that foreplay is a must before having sex with a man for the first time. There's nothing more disappointing than having a man just trying to jump on top of you without giving your some mouth love- dry sex is as uncomfortable as a vending machine tampon. Agreed? Only during quickies should you forego oral sex. Any other time you better expect the man to get on his knees and give you some tongue action. I actually have to come out and admit that oral sex in porn is such a huge turn on. It's so sexy to see a man on his knees eating a woman and watching her get off as he licks her plate clean. It's hot.