I'm afraid that we'll never be intimate again and I have no idea how to fix this.
If you're one of the lucky people who got to marry their soulmate, feeling like your heart is going to explode from happiness and love pretty much comes with the territory. From time spent planning out your future (babies!!!), to those much-needed moments where just the two of you are together — disconnected from the world. It makes sense that you'll probably find yourself falling even harder for the guy who's there with you every step of the way.
But sometimes, life, work and everything that comes with having a family can get in the way. Your partner might start pulling away a bit. In some cases, as times passes, you may find that he seems less interested in having sex. The same guy who used to love your sexual romps can now, all of a sudden, seemingly go without any of that. This can make you feel lost, insecure and wondering what happened to the passion in your relationship. Before you freak out and let this situation take a toll on your marriage, know that you're not alone. There are ways to navigate this and reignite the sex in your marriage.
Doug Olds of AfterNineTonight not only gets this situation, but in this video he gives marriage advice on what we can do to break out of these sex ruts. Instead of letting insecurities run wild, we have to be brave and confront the issue head on. How can we expect our situation to change if we can't even talk about it? The good news? When you marry your soul mate, being open and honest comes naturally and makes times like these so much easier to navigate.