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3 Ways Kinky Sex Is Like Spicy Food
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3 Ways Kinky Sex Is Like Spicy Food

50 Shades of Grey has given millions of people permission to begin exploring the kinkier side of sex. Attendance at fetish clubs and in online kinky communities are at an all-time high, and it is no longer taboo to admit your interest in exploring rough sex and role playing. As more and more people begin sampling from the banquet of BDSM and kink, it is important to remember that there is a wide spectrum of intensity to explore.

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Could this hot new romance novel help you connect with your sexual desire?
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How Well Do You Know Your Own Desires?

The best-selling 50 Shades of Grey trilogy brought mainstream attention to bondage, S&M, and other subversive sex acts. But a new erotic romance titled S.E.C.R.E.T. doesn't just portray fantasies — it teaches readers how and why they might want to explore their own.

From Victim to Bully
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From Victim to Bully

According to one friend of Adam Lanza, he was excruciatingly shy as a teenager.  If you have ever felt shy, embarrassed or humiliated in public, or the victim of cruel teasing or ostracism in your peer group, you know the feeling.  Multiply that memory of the pain of shame by a power of 10 or 20 and make it last for years and we might be able to understand a craving for revenge that could overwhelm reason.

Erotic Fantasy Reconsidered: From Tragedy To Triumph
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Erotic Fantasy Reconsidered: From Tragedy To Triumph

PART TWO Tell me how you were loved, and I’ll tell you how you make love. Our emotional history shapes our erotic blueprint and is expressed in the physicality of sex. Accordingly, there is a strong connection between our attachment map (defined as our expectations, conflicts, hopes and disillusionment with intimate connections) and our sexual feelings and behaviors: Tell me how you were loved, and I’ll tell you how you make love.  

Erotic Fantasy Reconsidered: From Tragedy to Triumph PART ONE
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Erotic Fantasy Reconsidered: From Tragedy to Triumph PART ONE

How we understand fantasy.   Many people approach the inner workings of their erotic mind with great trepidation, believing that the content of their fantasy life is inappropriate in the context of a loving relationship. Our cultural taboos about erotic fantasy are so strong that the very idea of discussing sexual fantasy leads some of us to anxiety and shame. Fantasy, however, can be an ingenious way for the creative mind to overcome relational and intrapsychic conflicts around desire and intimacy. Fantasy can be a tool to heal.  

Dating 101: What are you really attached to?
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Dating 101: What are you really attached to?

When you first start dating someone, it is easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of excitement and anticipation. You feel an attraction, like the way this person makes you feel, and believe he or she has the qualities that you are looking for. After a few dates, you might even conclude that there is a future here for you and the answer to your relationship woes. And even though you have only known this person for two or three weeks, you feel like you’ve known this person forever.

4 Reasons Why '50 Shades' Is Still So Popular [EXPERT]
Has '50 Shades' steamed up your sex life?
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4 Reasons Why '50 Shades' Is Still So Popular

The "Fifty Shades" books continue to generate buzz. As an expert in dominance and submission, as well as a general sexual enthusiast, I have a few ideas about how the "Fifty Shades" books became so popular and why they won't be losing their steam anytime soon.

My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 11
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My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 11

Mr. Sexy Voice has been a regular phone sex caller. I never really knew what he looked like, but in MY fantasy, he was a hot, sexy, Italian-looking man with dark wavy hair, slightly muscular body, beautiful teeth, and a large unshaven cock. After a few years of chatting on the phone and sharing his most intimate secrets, Mr. Sexy Voice decided it was high time he send me a “hot” picture of himself. It’s always a dilemma for me, really.

Golden Pussy Revisited
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Golden Pussy Revisited

by Julie Robinson Have you ever sought advice for your love life? Maybe you read self-help dating books or write to “experts” asking for advice. Like most of us, you probably consult your friends. Not too long ago, I wrote an article for Dating Sauce where I shared a story and asked for help on a topic close to my heart—I wanted to learn how to get a Golden Pussy.

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Do you and your significant other share sexual fantasies?
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Study Reveals Men & Women Have Similar Fantasies

If you're worried about what your significant other is fantasizing about, you can stop right now. A new study, conducted at Spain's University of Granada, says men and women in relationships have pretty similar sexual fantasies, in that both genders fantasize about their loved one. Researchers surveyed a group of Spanish citizens who had been in relationships for six months or longer.

My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 10
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My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 10

I couldn’t stop thinking about that call where the wife walked in and caught her husband. I guess I’ll never really forget about it since I am writing about it today. Everyone has their own opinion about what is right and what is wrong. I have always taken the stance that phone sex was a good thing. Of course I would, because it’s my business, a way of life for me, and also a way of life for a few hundred others whom I employ.

4 Tips To Improve Your Sex Life [EXPERT]
What's your sexual fantasy?
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4 Tips To Improve Your Sex Life

Sharing your fantasies with your partner is an important first step to bringing them to life. If you don't talk about what you want, how are you ever going to get it? There are a variety of ways to have this conversation but the main goal is to get these sexy thoughts out of your head and into real life!

My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 9
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My Life as a Phone Sex Operator - Part 9

Until I had this business, I thought that people (men) worked all day long, and had very little time to do much else. Prior to the internet really going wild, I also thought phone sex was just a quick, natural, little self pleasure that a few indulged in once in a while. A simple naughty magazine would inspire many to call and disclose private intimate thoughts and actions. The cost was nominal and the time used was very little. As a phone actress not much mattered, all was done discreetly over the phone.

Why Women Love '50 Shades Of Grey' [EXPERT]
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Why Women Love '50 Shades Of Grey'

If you have not heard about the popularity of the novel series, Fifty Shades of Grey, by E. L. James, than you are likely living under a rock. This romance novel's overnight smash popularity is an indication of several things. Number one, women enjoy sex. Number two, women do like erotica. And, number three, women enjoy their erotic adventures wrapped in a handsome fantasy and safely packaged in a monogamous relationship.