After years together, it can get boring in the bedroom. Read more for solutions to spicing it up.
Is it possible to have hot sex while being monogamous?
Like anything else out there, it takes work and a certain amount of creativity. The answer is a definite YES. It is MORE than possible to have a smokin’ hot monogamous relationship. I believe that is a big part of the reason why the mom porn book “50 Shades of Grey” is so popular – the women reading it are turned on by all the kinky monogamy.
A new survey reveals that both men and women want to share fantasies with their lover. Here's how!
How long should you wait in a new relationship to share a fantasy with your lover? According to a new Durex survey, men say they want to share fantasies as soon as possible - within the first three months of a relationship. The women surveyed chose to wait a little longer to share their fantasy, reporting 6 months to a year of a relationship is time enough to build the trust to start having the intimate conversation about fantasies.
What would it be like to be a guest on Chelsea Lately?
Drag queens sure know how to get me giddy. I love their over-the-top sequin-adorned clothes, stilettos that make them taller than the Jolly Green Giant, and wigs that poof out enough to add another six inches or so to their towering frame.
It never fails to glimpse a touch of lipstick on their teeth, glitter in the crevices of voluptuous cleavage, and eyelashes that would appear to be fake on a horse. Or maybe even an elephant.
50 Shades of Grey has given millions of people permission to begin exploring the kinkier side of sex. Attendance at fetish clubs and in online kinky communities are at an all-time high, and it is no longer taboo to admit your interest in exploring rough sex and role playing. As more and more people begin sampling from the banquet of BDSM and kink, it is important to remember that there is a wide spectrum of intensity to explore.
Trying to spice things up with your partner? Unsure about suggesting role play or fantasy? Well, as thrilling as fantasies can be, the potential for trouble also exists.
Could this hot new romance novel help you connect with your sexual desire?
New erotic romance S.E.C.R.E.T.: A Novel pushes readers to ask: what do I truly desire?
The best-selling 50 Shades of Grey trilogy brought mainstream attention to bondage, S&M, and other subversive sex acts. But a new erotic romance titled S.E.C.R.E.T. doesn't just portray fantasies — it teaches readers how and why they might want to explore their own.
How excruciating shyness could lead to an inner life of revenge fantasies ending in tragedy.
According to one friend of Adam Lanza, he was excruciatingly shy as a teenager. If you have ever felt shy, embarrassed or humiliated in public, or the victim of cruel teasing or ostracism in your peer group, you know the feeling. Multiply that memory of the pain of shame by a power of 10 or 20 and make it last for years and we might be able to understand a craving for revenge that could overwhelm reason.
Tell me how you were loved, and I’ll tell you how you make love.
PART TWO
Tell me how you were loved, and I’ll tell you how you make love.
Our emotional history shapes our erotic blueprint and is expressed in the physicality of sex. Accordingly, there is a strong connection between our attachment map (defined as our expectations, conflicts, hopes and disillusionment with intimate connections) and our sexual feelings and behaviors: Tell me how you were loved, and I’ll tell you how you make love.
How we understand fantasy.
Many people approach the inner workings of their erotic mind with great trepidation, believing that the content of their fantasy life is inappropriate in the context of a loving relationship. Our cultural taboos about erotic fantasy are so strong that the very idea of discussing sexual fantasy leads some of us to anxiety and shame. Fantasy, however, can be an ingenious way for the creative mind to overcome relational and intrapsychic conflicts around desire and intimacy. Fantasy can be a tool to heal.
It's easy to get excited and attached to a new love interest. Learn what you're REALLY attached to.
When you first start dating someone, it is easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of excitement and anticipation. You feel an attraction, like the way this person makes you feel, and believe he or she has the qualities that you are looking for. After a few dates, you might even conclude that there is a future here for you and the answer to your relationship woes. And even though you have only known this person for two or three weeks, you feel like you’ve known this person forever.
