3 Ways He Can Tell You're Faking An Orgasm
Simple ways he can call your bluff in bed.
Your body temperature doesn't increase, and more ways he can tell you're totally faking it.
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3 Tips For Successfully Faking An Orgasm
Use these steps to fake it til you make it!
Sooner or later you may find yourself in need of faking an orgasm during sex. You can find yourself in this situation due to a number of complex reasons. For instance, your partner might want to have sex at a time when you are too tired. Mismatched libidos are a major culprit that can require you to have sex when you simply aren't interested. The old 'I have a headache' excuse won't work forever.
If You're A Loud Moaner, There's A Good Chance You're 'Faking It'
A lot of women moan louder to get their guys to climax (so we can go to bed!)
When it comes to doing the deed, Hollywood has taught us that sex is going to make women whoop and holler, speak in tongues and scream out bizarre obscenities that outside of the bedroom would be deemed just plain weird. But scientists at the University of Leeds have found that when women are making all those ridiculous noises during sex, it's not because their orgasm is that amazing.
5 Reasons Women Fake Orgasms (Not That They Should)
Wondering why women sometimes fake orgasms? Here are the five most common reasons.
Guys, let me let you in on a little secret. Sometimes, we fake it. I know, I know. It's shady and you don't like it. But sometimes, it just happens.
Women Fake Orgasms Because They're Insecure
60 percent of women and 25 percent of men say they have pretend orgasms.
After surveying 366 women between the ages of 18 and 32, researcher Erin Cooper found that among the 60 percent who said they fake it, many of them admitted doing it because they were scared of intimacy or "insecure about their sexual functioning."
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Why You Shouldn't Fake An Orgasm
Ultimately, the only one getting faked out is you.
Is it okay if you, er, fudge a little in order to move things along? Dr. Jane Greer, a marriage and family therapist in New York City and host of the radio show Doctor On Call, examines the issue.
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Fake It Til You Make It, Ladies
Sometimes a little faking goes a long way in a relationship.
Part of the cornerstone of society is pretending to like things. Sometimes we fake orgasms and sometimes we tell someone how nice their hair looks. Sure, it's a little dishonest but it greases the wheels of society. And sometimes if you go through the motions long enough, you'll actually begin to like something. It's important, in a relationship, to sometimes pretend to like what the other person likes. Without the ability to occasionally whitewash something, there would be frickin' anarchy or a very honest and unpretentious society. Six of one, half a dozen of the other.
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How To Tell If He's Faking An Orgasm
Men fake orgasms, too. How to tell if his O is for real.
In our piece, The Myth Of The Male Orgasm, we wrote about men who have trouble reaching coming—it's not as uncommon as you think. In fact, an AskMen survey found that 23% of guys have faked an orgasm at some point. Women fake it for various reasons; a common excuse is not wanting to hurt his feelings. AskMen says that guys do it for the same reason. "The prevailing opinion is that men should be able to climax whenever, wherever and under any circumstance," which simply isn't true. Your dude might have trouble coming if he's tired, stressed or drunk, or if he's already climaxed that day. And if that's the situation, he might fake it. Ladies, here are some signs that he might be pretending.