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How I Became An Online Dating Coach

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How I Became An Online Dating Coach [EXPERT]
I started out online dating just like you!
... featuring an essay by YourTango Expert Erika Ettin!

I came full circle — from doing online dating to using the skills I learned to help others in the same endeavor. I was in the trenches, so I know what it's like to go through the trials and tribulations of online dating. And it's no easy task. When people tell me, "You're so lucky you found Jeremy," I have to laugh a little. Yes — I am extremely lucky for having found such a thoughtful, smart, and (not to mention) good-looking guy. But was it luck or persistence that led me to him?

I'd venture to say a little of both, and now I get to help other people in their effort to do the same. And it's always so rewarding, like when a client came to me recently and said, "We've decided to date exclusively and see where things go. I want to thank you for your awesome profile writing. My profile is what he said caught his attention. He said it was well-written, and he could see what I was like and what I liked." 20 Rules For Your First Online Date

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So, how do you know when someone is right for you? When he buys you flowers? When he sends you a cute text? When he supports you in all your endeavors? All are nice, but I'd venture to say the last one is the most important. Jeremy helped me find the courage to turn my personal online dating success story into a business that fulfills my passion to help others find success online. Plus, I have a boyfriend who doesn't mind that I have to go to singles events all the time for work. Now, that's supportive!

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Erika Ettin

Dating Coach

Erika Ettin is the Founder of A Little Nudge, helping people find success in online dating and getting them excited about its possibilities.  Erika truly loves what she does, from profile-writing to planning dates, and is excited to help people find happiness... online. 

A Little Nudge has recently been featured on WUSA9 News, News Channel 8, Fox News, JMag (JDate's online magazine), and AskMen.  Read her blog for more fun and useful dating tips.  

Connect with Erika to get the nudge you need in online dating by joining her newsletter.

Location: Washington, DC
Credentials: MBA
Specialties: Dating/Being Single Support
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