Make it clear that you aren't holding your life up to wait for him, but do it with actions, not threats. If you've always wanted to move to London and finally got a great job offer, order your new passport.
On a smaller scale, maintain your other relationships and interests, and continue to do the things that matter to you. Keep your life full, exciting and fulfilling. It will become evident fast that he can either join in for the ride, or risk missing out on the adventure of a lifetime.
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