Why You Need To Let Go In Relationships

“We need in love to practice only this: letting each other go. For holding on comes easily, we do not need to learn it.” – Rainer Maria Rilke This quote isn't about letting go of a relationship that's not working, it's about letting go of your attachment to a man that's ...

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The One Internet Dating Mistake You Shouldn't Make

Online dating is frustrating to say the least. I hear from many of my clients that it's making them crazy. But of all the Internet dating mistakes you can make, there is one that I see over and over again. Here's an example of an email I received from a client: Virginia, I have been online dating ...

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3 Tips To Help You Ask For A Commitment

As a child you might have gotten the message that drawing attention to yourself was self-centered and that you shouldn't make waves. If this is you, you probably find it difficult to speak up for yourself, especially in relationships. The more important the problem, like whether or not to ask for a ...

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Texting Tips: Don't Settle For Crumbs

It's easy to find dating advice and texting tips on line, and because of the internet you may think the old rules of dating no longer apply. It’s true they’ve changed the way you “meet” a man and start initial contact, but it hasn't changed the personal effort it takes to create a ...

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4 Tips For Women Who Struggle To Say 'No'

Healthy boundaries in your relationships don't just happen. They require discipline and willpower. I know this sounds about as appealing as going on a diet, but without healthy boundaries, you can end up a victim of a man's bad behavior. Why do you need to make the effort to stick to your personal Read More