Do you ever wake up in the middle of the night full of doubt and fear? Doubts can be insidious, especially in the early morning hours.
During the day you may be feeling really positive about your future and having the Read More
Are you more dog-like or a cat-like in your relationships?
People who like pets usually enjoy referring to themselves as either dog people or cat people, but your preference doesn't really matter...except when it comes to your feminine allure which you can learn from a real expert, a cat.
I used to ...
One of the hardest qualities you’ll have to cultivate as a single woman waiting for love is patience.
Let’s face it, waiting for anything is stressful: waiting for the light to turn green, for the bank teller to finish with a customer or waiting for the man of your dreams.
When I was single ...
We women are expert doers and givers. If you don’t think so, look at your life and think of all the things you do for others. I bet you’re there for your girlfriends and family whenever there’s a problem. I know I am, I want to help and I want to be needed.
But your giving nature can become ...
There’s a big difference between being busy and being productive. It’s the difference between keeping your mind full of things to do and actually doing those things. It’s too easy these days to get distracted and jump from one shinny object to another. The trouble is that you don’t have ...
When I first called Virginia, I was in a bad place in my love life: I was confused and had a lot of fears. I did not know why I was unhappy in my relationship. I did not understand men and myself. I always wanted to go to Paris, it was my dream but my man would say no and he had no interest in that.
When I started working with Virginia, I started to change step by step. I stopped nagging, I did not worry as much and I wasn’t needy anymore. It was a fun experiment of looking at my relationship from a different perspective. I realized that I was in a co-dependent relationship that was not making me happy. It was not easy to break out of 4 year engagement but I did it with Virginia’s help. If it weren’t for her, I don’t know where I would be today. I could still be broken hearted and unhappy.
Virginia did not change me but helped me to find and to bring back the best in me that was somehow lost in a bad relationship: fun, outgoing, smart, loving and adventurous woman I always was. I wasn’t afraid anymore, and I knew who I was and what I was looking for in a man. And most of all, I knew that if I never met my true love, I would not be afraid of being alone. I learnt to love and appreciate myself fist rather than be in a bad relationship.
Today I’m happily engaged to the man of my dreams: tall, dark and handsome. He possesses all of my non-negotiable qualities that my partner should have and much more: he is kind, caring, romantic, sexy, successful, generous, adventurous, considerate, loyal, honest, and the list could go on. He loves my son like his own child. He proposed to me on the top of Eifel Tower in my favorite city in the world – my dream came true! ~ E. W., MN
In the short time I've been working with Virginia via phone, I have all ready started seeing some dramatic shifts in my life. I am now actively dating and no longer sitting at home being miserable. In our sessions, I always feel heard by her and she keeps me accountable for my own growth by assigning me "homework." I would recommend Virginia's services, either in person or over the phone, to anyone looking for someone to help them make positive changes in her life.
~P. B. Orlando, FL
After my VIP day I was able to tell him what I wanted...no more late nights, real dates with dinner and holiday time. I was very calm and confident, I didn't know I could do that! He told me, "I understand but I can't give you that right now." That totally changed how I felt about him and I could walk away feeling good about myself. You saved me years of waiting for things to change. What a big lesson for me. Thank you!
~ Harriet C. Detroit
Overcoming a Broken Heart
“Unresolved feelings from past relationships had kept me stuck and unable to move forward into a new and healthy relationship. After working with Virginia I have felt more resolved, peaceful, and confident, and as a result I have met and begun a relationship with someone wonderful and just right for me.”
~T.W. MFT, PHD, Los Angeles