· Cats know what they want and don't want.
And just as importantly -- cats know how to relax! They can relax so totally because they are at peace with who they are. There is nothing more feminine than a cat stretched out full length for a nap.
It's a challenge to embody these qualities if you're used to being more dog-like. One thing you can do to help you be more catlike is keep an image of a particular cat in your mind. Call on it whenever you feel you are going into that "man-pleasing dog territory."
Cats will keep you under a love spell. Whatever they want, you're happy to give it to them. They don't always seem grateful and they will keep you guessing. But at night, when a cat curls up to sleep beside you, you know that you are loved and appreciated. They make you feel like the luckiest person in the world.
That's how a man wants to feel -- that's the feminine allure of relishing your inner cat.