How to stop wasting time and bring in true love now.
By Virginia Clark — Written on Apr 15, 2013
- Create a strong vision of what you want. The most important tool we have to manifest true love is our imagination. Every highly successful athlete or performer will tell you that visualizing their desired outcome is an essential component of their success. The subconscious doesn't know the difference between what's real and what isn’t. When we visualize being in our ideal relationship it creates a corresponding emotion. That emotion activates the subconscious mind and it will go about the business manifesting that situation for you. Don’t focus on what you don’t want because that will bring up unwanted emotions. See in your mind's eye what a day, week or lifetime would be like with your beloved and let the all the wonderful emotions fill you up.
- Schedule time to take action towards your goal. It’s interesting how we put lunch dates, business meetings and dental appointments in the calendar but we don’t schedule time to meet a man. If you don’t write it down you may not do it and before you know it weeks have gone by without you making any effort towards your goal. The actions you take can be varied; time on Internet sites, singles events or a coffee at a local café. Adding these activities to your calendar tells your subconscious that finding true love is important to you. You might feel uncomfortable with this idea because it seems premeditated and not at all romantic. Well, it is. Not everything about finding love is hearts and flowers. Like any important goal it needs concerted effort until you have your desire.
- Allow a space for miracles. With the actions I’ve listed above you might feel as though the responsibility of manifesting true love is all on you, that you alone are in control of the outcome. In a sense that’s true, but part of your control has to include (as they say in AA) “let go and let God.” Whatever your spiritual beliefs, if you make space for divine timing and hold an opening for invisible support, your search for love will not feel overwhelming.
Follow these 5 steps and you can’t help but bring true love into your life. When you manifest your true love you’ll be grateful for all the time and effort you devoted to your deep desire.