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The 3 Big Reasons You're Still Single

By Virginia Clark. Posted on Feb 2nd 2012.

What determines whether you find the love of your life or end up alone?

3. You don't value yourself enough to set boundaries.

Every relationship you enter into requires some form of boundaries. Whether it's your hairdresser, your doctor, or your mother, there are "rules" that are implied in the nature of a relationship. If you let people—men in particular—get away with breaking the rules you need to feel safe and loved, you'll end up floundering emotionally and be full of resentment. 25 Dating Dos And Don'ts [VIDEO]

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Boundaries, like discipline, create freedom. If you don't have standards in your relationships, you're at the mercy of someone else's bad behavior. "Why am I still single?" is a good question to ask yourself and you shouldn't be afraid of the answer. Facing what has been holding you back is the only way to move yourself forward to get the love you desire.

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