News flash: Women are different! For most women, sex and love are one. Their hearts and genitals are deeply connected. When a woman’s heart is truly open to a man, her vagina opens like a flower in bloom and her juices may gush like a swollen river. For them it is a fairly easy and natural process to establish this kind of deeper connection. Unlike many men, when she opens herself sexually, the floodgates of her emotions and even her spiritual nature will likely pour forth. Women generally share tantra’s viewpoint that love and sex are synonymous. The Hindus use the Sanskrit word “kama” that embraces both love and sex indivisibly. Women tend to bring the whole inseparable package of their human qualities along for the ride. Experience tells me that as a rule, men are more disconnected than women. They require more training in the sexual arts in order to unify their hearts and genitals so that something truly memorable can take place. That’s why I teach men the advantages of prolonged, leisurely lovemaking, without a genital release. With no ejaculation forthcoming, their bodies have sufficient time for the energy of arousal to rise beyond the genitals, above the waist where a big “heart-on” awaits them.
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