Are you turning your man off?

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Are you turning your man off?
Are you turning your man off?
Why do so many women make this mistake? I hope there's more to you than meets the eye.

There are usually two kinds of women a man wants: A woman for a relationship, and a woman just for fun. So, what type of woman are you?

I read on a blog once that smart & classy women are 1 in a million and girls that refuse to hold themselves to a higher standard are in abundance.

Does this mean that men secretly desire a smart woman? Pretty sexy if you ask me…

The more I talk to men. The more it seems to be true. I went on a date last night with "D". It was our first date and I have to tell you I really enjoyed the conversation. We had a lot in common. The dating topic came up & he shared with me what he was looking for in a woman. For a minute there I thought I was being graded. Well he went on to say how women just don't get it. I love getting the male perspective. He also shared with me the usual traits but what stood out for me was that he was seeking someone that would stimulate him both mentally & physically. Does that mean he wants my body & my brains too?

What are you going to do to make a guy fall head over heels? I would first say “smarten up”. Men seem to be more attracted to you if you care about yourself, can carry an intelligent conversation & have your own interests. It appears that men want women that are interested in them and what they do and can help them do it better. You can’t help him, if you don’t know how to help yourself.

Too much emphasis is put on how you look. Now don’t get me wrong. I think it’s important to look great, stay in shape and dress attractively but ladies its time you work on being drop dead gorgeous on the inside. That’s how you’re going to stand out from all the other women that refuse to develop themselves. When you are complete without a man and display a confident and sexy attitude. Watch how much more attention you'll receive from men.

You can learn a lot on a date. By the way if you’re wondering about “D”, it was our first and last date.

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