My Abortion, My Secret Heart Ache

Ask any parent what their worst imaginable fear would be and they would probably answer, “to lose one of my children to death.” Now, imagine losing a child to death and never crying about it. Worse yet, imagine choosing to not have that child because of tough circumstances you are in at the ...

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How Can Our Marriage Survive the Stress?

In a world where one trillion is a household world, the stresses of just surviving life can become an overwhelming endeavor. More than ever, couples need to know how to stay connected through the trials coming their way. I work with couples every week who are in complete survival mode. It’s like they are ...

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Our Big Secret ~ When Couples Don't Talk about Their Abortion

"It's over, it's done and we won't ever talk about this again."  Those were the words of my  boyfriend when we walked out of the state hospital where my abortion happened.  Well, one thing for sure...we never did talk about that. Even after we got married...not a ...

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When Sexual Abuse Rears It's Ugly Head

Sexual abuse is a trauma that affects heart level connections long after the fact. Years after the actual experiences, reactions to the event may start surfacing in odd ways. Sexual Abuse and Future Sexuality Sexual abuse is the gift that keeps on giving. A person caught in the trap of keeping ...

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Should I Tell My OB/GYN I've Had An Abortion?

Facing grief is a difficult process. There are some events in life where there is just nowhere to go with our pain. One of those situations is when a person chooses to terminate a pregnancy. I refer to this as “voluntary pregnancy termination” or “vpt” rather than the common term ...

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