How to Change Your Man

 He’d be perfect if only he'd grow another few inches. He’d be perfect if only he’d tap into his feminine side. He’d be perfect if only he’d drink less in public. He’d be perfect if only he weren’t so perfect! And the list goes on and on and on.   My ...

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Animal Love Lessons

 When you are a relationship expert, it seems there is no escaping love lessons. Whether I go to a playground, the circus, the grocery store or the laundromat, I'm always picking up jewels of relationship wisdom. But my visit to the San Diego Zoo this weekend may have trumped them all. Every stop along the way ...

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Wanted: Dating Stamina

 Lately I’ve been asking random strangers at coffee shops and bars, neighbors on planes, people on street corners waiting to cross in the same direction as me, customers in line at grocery stores, drug stores and just about every other place, one single question, “What’s the greatest thing in ...

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Your Relationship Balance Sheet

I remember my starter relationships. I was determined to be the best girlfriend ever. If there was going to be an award show for girlfriends, I wanted to win the Academy for it. And in hindsight, I probably could have. I’d read every everything on how to be an awesome girlfriend and tried to put it all into action. ...

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How To Date In The Present

"Great dates seem hard to come by so if I'm on one, I can't help but think, could he be the one? I get lost in the romance, the fantasy of it all," says Melanie, 29, an account supervisor in Boston. Melanie needs to learn how to date in the present. Read More