You should breakup with me if...

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You should breakup with me if...

If you are considering a relationship with someone you don’t make much time for, just the bare minimum… DO NOT ENTER THIS RELATIONSHIP… instead fill your days up with things that you can’t get enough.

6) Your pro list is all about you. If you are considering a relationship with someone and the reasons for it all benefit you and not him… DO NOT ENTER THIS RELATIONSHIP… instead start considering not only what you need in a relationship but what you have to offer as well.

7) You still think about your ex. If you are considering a relationship with someone but thoughts of your ex swirl about in your mind and/or your heart… DO NOT ENTER THIS RELATIONSHIP… instead “hetox” yourself of your ex, freeing yourself of what was so you can move upwards towards something new, cleanly.

If any of the above apply to you, be honest enough with yourself to know that now is not your time for a relationship. And then be honest enough with the guy on your arm to let him go before you break his precious little heart. Although right now might now be your time for partner love, doesn’t mean it won’t be soon… and remember, dating is love’s greatest teacher so enjoy your dating experiences as they prepare you for the great responsibility of a relationship!

Live and love largely,
Tristan

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Tristan Coopersmith

Marriage and Family Therapist

Tristan Coopersmith, M.A. MFTi
www.tristancoopersmith.com

Location: Hermosa Beach, CA
Credentials: BA, MA, MFTI
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