1) Your true love is not at the bottom of a pint of Ben & Jerry’s; wallowing in pity will get you nowhere. At the very least go out and live your life - building up a great life will make you shine brighter and in turn will make you more attractive to the kind of men you want to attract.
2) Dating is a game of numbers. The more you date, the better your odds. And if you seriously are so convinced that the pool is shrinking, what are you waiting for?!