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This Valentine's Day,Get A Heart On

This Valentine's Day,Get A Heart On
Love

This time of year a barrage of pre-packaged, hallmark love wrapped in pink
and red cuteness bombards us from every which way, forcing us to stare love in
the face. From stuffed bears and singing cards to heart-shaped diamond pendants
and 5-course dinner specials ending with a kissing swan soufflé, it can all
make you want to bitch slap Cupid in the face if you aren’t coupled up at the
moment. But just because you are not IN love right now, doesn’t mean you can’t believe in it. Here, 7 reasons to see
beyond the waxy artificial chocolate and vomit inducing PDA, and believe in
real deal love this Valentine’s Day.

 You already have
love in your life!
Reprogram the way you think about V-Day. Remember it is a celebration
of L-O-V-E. Not just couple love but all kinds of love. Concentrate on how lucky in love you already are and take a moment to appreciate
the people you love and that love you right now.

1.    
You already have
love in your life!
Reprogram the way you think about V-Day. Remember it is a celebration
of L-O-V-E. Not just couple love but all kinds of love.

Concentrate on how lucky in love you already are and take a moment to appreciate
the people you love and that love you right now.

2.    
Believing in love
makes u more lovable.
No man wants to be with a woman who doesn’t have
her heart open to the idea of falling in love. If you turn your back on love,
love will turn its back on you. Similarly if you greet love with open arms, it
will come to you freely and openly.

3.    It is literally
good for you to have love in your life.
Having love in our lives increases the
levels of dopamine in our brains, which causes positive effects in all areas of
our lives.

4.    
The alternative
sucks.
Are you seriously going to sit in your house on Cupid’s Day with a face
mask in your jammies eating a gallon of ice cream moping to yourself about how
unlucky you are in love, or worse yet commiserate with the lonely at an
Anti-Valentine’s Day party? It takes a lot more energy to be miserable than it
does to be optimistic.

5.    
If you aren’t a
believer, you are a big buzzkill to those around you.
Bitching about how
much you hate V-Day, how commercial it is, how anyone who celebrates it should
be shot, emits bad energy into the universe. Be afraid because Cupid IS
watching. He’s got a bag full of arrows ready to shoot… and do you really think
he is going to waste an arrow on a grinch like you? I think not.

6.   
If you give up on
love, you decrease your chances of finding it.
Life is short and
hanging up a closed for business sign, even for a day, minimizes your chances
of finding someone worth cashing in on.

7.    
Deep down inside
you know you already do believe.
Come on, admit, you can think of at least
one couple that is head over heels in love… one couple that you admire for
their undying devotion… one couple that you think, ‘that is worth holding out
for’… proof that you are already at your core, a believer.

So instead of looking at the 14th
as doomsday, put on your hottest red thong, go treat yourself to a box of
chocolate and get inspired by Valentine’s Day! Absorb the love that is all
around and just think, soon you could be one half of a couple dancing to
Cupid’s cheesy beat.

Happy Valentine's Day!

Live and love largely,

Tristan

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