Subconscious Sexiness


Subconscious Sexiness

Think about how taking your hair out of a ponytail and giving it an effortless shake, while waiting in a grocery store line can be sexy. Think about ending sentences with a natural smile... ever notice how TV personalities always do that and as a result you want to hear what they have to say next?!



Once you have your toolbox filled with moves you that inspire you, practice, practice, practice them… in front of a mirror. I know, it sounds so awkward, but just like you might rehearse for a presentation, or a potentially uncomfortable conversation, introducing new moves into your repertoire is like learning to ride a bike – in the beginning, its unnatural but the more you do it, the easier it becomes. Eventually a conscious attempt, will become an unconscious behavior. Believe me, in my hurried mad dash out of Starbucks, I wasn't trying to be sexy, it just happened. After you have your mirrored moves down, strut your new sexy stuff out in the real world… a lot. Begin to integrate these new tricks into your everyday being. There shouldn’t be an “off” switch. Do it all the time. The more you do it, the more confident you will become. Soon these behaviors will be baked into who you are… and you will become one of the women other students of sexy, study!


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Tristan Coopersmith

Marriage and Family Therapist

Tristan Coopersmith, M.A. MFTi

Location: Hermosa Beach, CA
Credentials: BA, MA, MFTI
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