Subconscious Sexiness


Subconscious Sexiness

 Leaving Starbucks early this morning, my hands were overflowing so I used my hip, raising my toes a bit, to open the door. Not thinking twice about the effort, a cute guy gave me that look – that impressed, wanna see what else I could do with my hips look, and said, “Nice move.” Of course I’m a retired MENu Dater so I just smiled, thanked the hottie and passed on a word of advice that he’d have better lady luck if he hopped up and opened the door. But I digress.



The experience got me thinking… about moves. And how every single girl ought to have an arsenal of them, subconsciously sewn into the fabric of her actions. Sure some women are just born sexy – they know how to saunter, coyly smile and hair toss out of the womb, but most women have to school themselves… the good news is, if your sexy barometer is a little lower than you’d like, its easy to raise it.

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Tristan Coopersmith

Marriage and Family Therapist

Tristan Coopersmith, M.A. MFTi

Location: Hermosa Beach, CA
Credentials: BA, MA, MFTI
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