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Signs Your Man is Mooching Off of You

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7.     Your friends that your man is a mooch. You deny it but then when you do a simple balance sheet calculation mapping out the give and take in your so-called relationship the take column is glaringly blank. Sure maybe he has hit a financial roadblock, but would it kill him to clean house or cook for you, or does he really need to camp out at your place all day working on a butt print in your sofa?

 

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8.     All of a sudden you are living together, without ever having had the declarative, romantic ‘let’s take this step and move in together’ talk. He just took over a few drawers and badah boom badah bing, he’s your rent-free roomie.

 

9.     He’s slick. He knows every trick in the book to get something for free. He’d rather take a government check than work. He’s the first to find a lawsuit for nothing. He doesn’t take pride in earning what he receives.

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Tristan Coopersmith

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Tristan Coopersmith, M.A. MFTi
www.tristancoopersmith.com

Location: Hermosa Beach, CA
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