Your choice seems easy to me. Pity party vs. Inspiration. A pity party leads to swollen eyes and isolation but inspiration is a catalyst for change and change produces positive action. In this case, change will manifest itself in a more open-minded, open-hearted feeling towards what’s next on your journey towards fulfilling love… and that is definitely something to opt in on.
Live and love largely,
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