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Did the whole world get coupled up overnight leaving you as the lone single soldier? Hardly. (In fact it is break-up season right now.) It just looks like that on the outside because of the way you feel on the inside – be it defeated, deflated, or otherwise just yucky about love. So here’s the deal, you’ve got two ways you can handle this:

You can either:

A) Throw yourself a pity party. But skip the pigs in a blanket because no one but you is showing up for this soiree. Wallowing in y our own misery or hating on others happiness gets you to no place good. This method decreases the hope and positive outlook you have for your own future. It replaces what could be good power with bad and it wraps you up in an aura of undateable energy.

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Tristan Coopersmith

Marriage and Family Therapist

Tristan Coopersmith, M.A. MFTi

Location: Hermosa Beach, CA
Credentials: BA, MA, MFTI
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