9. Wear a blindfold. Blocking off your eyesight serves two purposes: 1) shutting down one sense, heightens the others, and 2) you can get lost in an identity created in your mind. Chanel your sex hero – Angelina Jolie, Samantha Jones, Jenna Jameson – for inspiration and let your body do the rest of the work.
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10. Think to yourself, “Why not?”
When you reach a mental block, and believe us, it is always mental because your body was made to experience sexual pleasure, think to yourself, “What do I have to lose?” Even if you try a complex maneuver and pull a hamstring, your man will be appreciative of your attempt to let loose.