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Dr. Tina Tessina - Author, Counselor/Therapist, Marriage and Family Therapist, Psychologist, Relationship Coach - Long Beach, CA
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Dr. Tina Tessina (LMFT,MFT,PhD)

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Dr. Romance: Help! I Can't Stop Fighting My Family

(To see the accompanying video, click here.) Often, the same quirks, reactions and behaviors that create problems between you and the female members of your famiy wouldn't be a problem if they was someone else's family. If your best ...

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Asking for What You Want

In my counseling office, I see a lot of damage done because people don't know how to ask for what they want, or don't think it's OK. Not asking for what you want means you'll eventually resent somebody, and that leads to a lot of strife. So today, I thought I'd give some hints about how to ...

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Dear Dr. Romance: Why Does He Want a Relationship?

Dear Dr. Romance: I met this guy through a phone call, but he contacted or got my profile through a friend of mine and he is satisfied through that, and he is convinced that he could have a relationship with me, he needs my affection, fear of God, caring, true ...

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Dear Dr. Romance: Is It More Important to Be Balanced or Compatib

Dear Dr. Romance: What is more important in a relationship: being balanced or compatible? Dear Reader: Compatibility trumps balance, but balance may be an important component of compatibility. Compatibility means having similar core values, living together well and comfortably, and being able to talk ...

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Apology & Forgiveness

In my clinical experience, I've encountered many clients who are afraid to admit they’re wrong. This comes from a culture of blaming and accusing—where one's early family may have picked a “culprit” when something went wrong, and focused on blame, rather than on fixing the problem ...

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Dr. Romance: Help! I Can't Stop Fighting My Family

You're a grown up, but you still fight with your mom like a teen. This has to end.

Women Laughing

Asking for What You Want

In my counseling office, I see a lot of damage done because people don't know how to ask ...

Man Relaxing in Grass

Dear Dr. Romance: Why Does He Want a Relationship?

It takes more than "falling in love with a photo" to create a real relationship.

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Dear Dr. Romance: Is It More Important to Be Balanced or Compatib

With good communication and negotiation skills, any couple can create satisfying, loving intimacy.

Dialogue

Apology & Forgiveness

Apology and subsequent forgiveness is stress-releasing and healthy for the relationship.

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