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Dr. Tina Tessina (LMFT,MFT,PhD)

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Dear Dr. Romance: This Single Mom Hasn't Had Sex In Years

Dear Dr. Romance: I am in my forties, and hadn't had sex in years. I met someone and we clicked. We had sex on the second date—I know you can't unring the bell, and I'm betting that was probably a mistake, but there is a serious physical attraction ...

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Dear Dr. Romance: 2 days later, he tells me he's working it out w

Dear Dr. Romance: I met someone from online and we talked for a nite and we met that nite and one thing led to another and as it turns out he wanted to see me again.2 days later he tells me that hes trying to work this out with his exwife. How do I not go into that ...

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Dear Dr. Romance: I discovered he crossdressed

Dear Dr. Romance: When I was 20, I met a man of 37. For many reasons, including what I thought was love, moved in with him 3 weeks later. After getting engaged to my partner, I discovered he crossdressed. I cried, but he said he did it cuz he was alone for so long ...

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A Good Cry

At the end of a client-packed day, the trash can in my office is often overflowing with used tissues. Richard, seeing this, usually comments; “Good day, huh?” and we both laugh. He knows that, when clients cry, they’re usually breaking through and healing something. I’ve been known to ...

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10 Reasons For Not Falling in Love

Although you might think of “falling in love” as romantic; we all fall in love many times in life: with a new lover, a new friend, a particularly cooperative co-worker, an appealing movie or TV star, a caring neighbor, siblings, relatives and even pets. Any close relationship involves falling in love ...

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First Date

Dear Dr. Romance: This Single Mom Hasn't Had Sex In Years

Slow down. Getting this excited this soon usually dooms a relationship...

shame

Dear Dr. Romance: 2 days later, he tells me he's working it out w

One thing should NOT lead to another, until you get to know a guy well.

Brain

Dear Dr. Romance: I discovered he crossdressed

Dr. Romance helps a woman who has a significant other with gender confusion

Crazy

A Good Cry

A good cry can be the most healing thing you can do.

10 Reasons For Not Falling in Love

Here are ten reasons you may not feel comfortable being open and available for love

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