The Rev. Christopher L. Smith, LCAC, LMHC, LMFT has served as a national leader around mental health issues both within the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) and in professional counseling organizations. He works directly with individuals, couples, families and supervisees as the Clinical Director of Seeking Shalom in New York City. He also brings his insight to help a wider audience through writing, speaking and consultations.
Imagine you are in a situation where you have found that your husband cheated on you. When you two first discussed this, he temporarily moved out of the house. A few weeks go by and he says he would like for both of you to go to marriage counseling. Your first reaction is "no way" because he is still maintaining a "friendship... READ MORE
You have just had a fight with your spouse. As has been the case with past arguments in your marriage, the two of you are not talking. You are dreading the fact that in a few hours it will be bed time. Think honestly about what is going on in your mind. What are you thinking? Often, your thoughts are likely to be about how you were right and... READ MORE
As a parent, it can be awfully tempting to spoil your kids, especially around the holidays. And while it's okay to regale them with gifts every so often, it's essential that they learn to appreciate what they have. With that in mind, here are some tips from YourTango Experts about how to teach your kids the importance of gratitude:... READ MORE