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Spring Clean Your Relationships

Spring Clean Your Relationships
Love, Family

Sometimes we feel stuck after a hard winter, choose to make this Spring Season different!

With all of the Disney movies out there, I am reminded of Snow White's story. Snow White seemed so happy to sing and sweep in that little cottage. These days, cleaning is less of a glorious task and more of a necessity, concentrated mostly in the spring/summer.

As the weather is warming, the kids are fleeing from school and you’re steadily overwhelmed by thoughts of vacation and juggling work-life needs, don’t forget the following tips to clean out your relationships

  1. Make use of the weather to expand your relationship network. People get out and move more than any other time of the year. It’s a great opportunity for you to join a club or sport to meet new people and make new friends. 
  2. Set up special one-on-one time with your significant other. Take some time to get out and hit a music festival with your partner or go canoeing. Do something fun- shared adventure increases positive feelings in a relationship. When out, talk about anything other than the house or the kids.
  3. Pick a goal to reach by September. Goals aren’t just for January. Goals can be to visit your parents more often, try a new activity or simply to work out more often. Picture yourself doing something that would enhance your life experience and take action. Share your goal with others and ask for their support –perhaps they’ll even join you in your efforts.
  4. Make a date with your kids. Time spent running them all over the earth for activities this summer isn’t quality time. Make a date with each child for one-on-one time each month. Let them choose a special activity and just have fun. Those are the memories they will keep. Take a picture of the two of you for the day and start a summer collage frame for them to keep. Memories get made every day – make them good ones.


At the end of the summer, take a moment to see what you accomplished. It’s important to look back on time and see the good things. Did you make a new lifelong friend? Perhaps you enhanced relationships with your families? Maybe you finally cleaned your ill-fitting clothes out of your closet? Any of these is a great accomplishment.


If you find it hard to flourish this season, please reach out to a professional for help. Don’t just let life pass you by. Embrace it, and those around you, to really enjoy your life experience.

This article was originally published at Family SOS, Inc.. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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