Get professional help to navigate any planning of your divorce. There are many ways you can plan for your safety, and a professional counselor can help you. Most relationships can be helped with professional couples counseling.
The exception to this is if you are in a relationship with emotional and/or physical safety issues, then counseling will make it worse for you. If you find yourself the recipient of more and more rage by your partner when in couples counseling, be sure to tell your counselor privately what you are experiencing outside of their office. They can help you plan your next steps, or refer you to someone who can. How To Get A Good Divorce
The author is Teresa Maples MS. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Washington State. I specialize in treating family members who are dealing with sexual addiction or affairs. You can connect with me at Journey to Abundant Life.