Divorce Usually Isn't A Surprise

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Divorce Usually Isn't A Surprise
Men often cry foul play over divorce, feeling they were blindsided~but women feel empowered by it.

Divorce allows women to salvage the rest of their lives and it catapults women into second (or even first) careers.  It puts women into the arms of men who see us, chase us, like us, and love us well~or, it gives us a much needed break and some down time to focus on ourselves, maybe for the first time in years. Either way, it feels like a win after having been alone in a relationship.

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