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Coach Suzanne Muller, Dating Coach

Coach Suzanne Muller - Dating Coach, Relationship Coach - Freienbach, SZ
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"I believe that everyone is capable of having a fulfilling and loving relationship, and that it starts with being Loveable. Being loveable is a three-fold process - being able to love ...

Articles

The Link Between Happiness And Healthy Relationships

I’m up early this morning because I put myself to bed early last night, it felt so good to rest. I think my body just needed to recover from a long hard workout this weekend. My thoughts this morning are about how do we make it all work? How do we honor ourselves, love our partner, love ourselves, ...

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Tell Me The Truth: One Of The Biggest Problems With Dating

A friend sent me an article a couple of weeks ago called "The 6 Best Excuses for Backing Out of a Date." She was appalled and I was too. I hear over and over again from clients: "no one is ...

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4 Reasons You Should Choose Quality Over Quantity When Dating

Have you ever been on a date and realized within the first 30 minutes that this person wasn't for you? Maybe you knew in the first 10 minutes and still had to go through the motions all evening. Are you Read More

Can't Find Love? The Top 7 Reasons You're Still Single

Does love seem almost impossible to come by? Are you wondering why she gets the guy, and you don't? Are you pondering why you are ineffective in dating and love? If yes, then wait no longer — here are some answers. Some people make the world of love out to be more confusing than it needs to be. ...

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Communication Is Key: If Something Is Bothering You, Say It

Yes, the beginning parts of dating are wonderful. Love is fantastic. Walking around with butterflies in your stomach rocks. Hearts above your head are fun; however, what are the signs that will inevitably show up when something starts to bother you, or your level of fulfillment with this person starts to decline ...

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Success Stories

Why Working On You First Is A Big Key To Trusting Another Again

enny and her man ask that their photo not be published yet. Her journey to this wonderful man is worth telling. You will see why!

“My sessions with Suzanne started off having nothing to do with dating men. I knew I had some work to do on me before I was ready to let someone in, so we spent the first couple of months just working on my relationship with myself.  The tipping point for me was learning about forgiveness.  I had no idea how important forgiveness was!  So before I, and Suzanne, gave me the green light to start dating I needed to immerse myself in forgiveness.  I knew that forgiveness was the only way to remove the dark cloud that hung over my heart.  That dark cloud of anger was in the way, which meant there was no room for anyone to get in.

I had a lot of forgiving to do!  First up, me.  I had to forgive myself for all of the bad choices I’ve made in relationships.  Whether that choice was the person or the choices I made within the walls of those relationships.  We went through each relationship one by one clearing out any left over negative feelings and forgave each one of them.  It was liberating.  I was able to clear a space for good things to come in; I was able to open my heart.  No more anger.

My first crack at letting someone in was a disaster!  What a gut check that was.  I learned quickly that I couldn’t let just anyone in.  The man I let in needs to be deserving of my trust.  That’s when we honed in on what I call phase 2: The fulfillment list!  I had a very short fulfillment list before my brush with disaster boy.  So Suzanne and I got real with my fulfillment list and that’s when everything changed.  I refined it, added to it, changed it.  Soon enough I met someone who inspired me to add even more to that list.  He showed me, without even realizing it, that there is more and there is better.  And he tells me all the time that I deserve this and I believe him.  This is a man who is deserving of my trust.

I am finally able to open my heart and together our willingness to be brave and vulnerable and to trust one another is what sets this relationship apart.  I have found someone who communicates with me on a level that I require and he challenges me to do the same.  A year ago I would not have been ready for this, now I am.” -Jenny

Tanking Relationship? How to Restart And Have It Work With An Ex

This couple has asked me to keep their identities hidden for now, and happy they are willing to contribute their bumpy to beautiful story with us.

“James and I were at a dead end, namely my dead end. You see James was separated but not divorced and was somewhat unreliable. There was love but little trust, connection that was matched by frustration and joy met by tears and anger mixed with passion.

As a result, I hit a wall and threw up my hands up in despair, and we went our separate ways. I had to cut ties to honor myself even though we loved each other.

So having tried to be out of love, and tired of trying, thankfully Suzanne came into my life. She was the obvious choice being so in love herself, and oozing the positive vibes of love, happiness and harmony.

I took a series of coaching sessions. The first one I went through an exercise from the book, and I cried buckets and buckets and buckets. And of course, I talked about James. The next session, more clearing, then 3rd session, what do I want?

I realized that James was what I wanted, but the behaviour was not. The conversations with James began again. What were we committed to? What had to change for us to work? What did we both want more of and what we were prepared to do or not do to have it?

After finding a great quote that says “the grass is greener where you water,” and discussing the messaging of dating with James, we started back at the beginning with dating and a clean slate.

Our relationship is sometimes joyous; sometimes hard; but we both wanted it so we persisted. There were times of painful honesty, tears and anger, and also laughs, fun and love. But mostly, we are committed to each other and having a relationship that works for both of us!

We have now been back together now for eight months, closer than we’ve ever been and happy planning our future. The path would have never been this clear if it hadn’t been for Suzanne, and I’m so happy. “ -Jane

Single Mom Putting Love Off For Child. How She Found The Balance

"I really longed for a relationship and at the same time I just couldn’t see it realistically happening…I’m a single mom with a full time job and a lot of other commitments…how was I supposed to fit a relationship into that equation? I also felt that being in a relationship would absolutely jeopardize my daughter’s happiness and well being. After all, in the past I would get completely engrossed in a new relationship and let all kinds of important commitments fall to the side – I just couldn’t afford to let that happen with my daughter. It felt safer to just wait for romance/relationship to occur once my daughter was grown and out on her own. While this plan seemed solid and the only option available to me for nearly eleven years, I harbored a lot of resentment towards others couples as I suppressed sharing love and intimacy.

Now with a clear and clean slate to work with I created just connecting with someone…if it lead to a relationship then great…if not, great. The important part was that I saw who I was going to be for myself, for a possible love interest, and most importantly for my. I gave myself a new outlook on love that I could step into. I’m now in a relationship that has continued to grow and blossom for over 2 years, and we are now living together. I continue to use the techniques I practiced in Suzanne’s workshop nearly three years ago to grow my relationship and steer it in directions that inspire me, my boyfriend and my daughter. I am truly grateful and free to express myself fully in this area of my life.” –Shannon

Starting Fast Then Fading. How Believing & Determination Paid Off

"Most of my dates would start off fast and then fade quickly, and I seemed to date a lot of unavailable men. I only dreamed of being adored by someone, and was starting to lose faith that their were men that wanted to be in a healthy relationship.

There was a gentleman I started dating just as we were wrapping up our coaching. I stayed intentional in keeping it light, letting him lead, JennJimBlogpicand believing it could happen for me. I now believe!!

Well, I can’t say it is merely coincidence that the guy I started seeing a couple months ago has turned into a ‘keeper’. And, he’s all the things I didn’t believe existed for me: he adores me, wants to protect me, is the alpha (former military guy, so that helps) is uber-bright, and we love lots of similar things. He’s asked me what my dream trip would be, and is already plotting how to make it happen. And I LET him. It’s a weird feeling for me to let him handle life. But it works really well!

Thank you for helping me open up to possibility! I may not have believed you when we worked through it, but somewhere, you got through to me. So, thank you!” –Jennifer

CredentialsOther
Time in Practice3-5 years
Additional ExpertiseRelationship Coach
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
I am fluent inEnglish
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Loveable - 21 Practices for Being in a Loving & Fulfilling Relationship

Loveable delivers what you need for being in a loving and ...

Buy online

CredentialsOther
Time in Practice3-5 years
Additional ExpertiseRelationship Coach
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
I am fluent inEnglish
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Loveable - 21 Practices for Being in a Loving & Fulfilling Relationship

Loveable delivers what you need for being in a loving and ...

Buy online