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Your New Love Motto When Dating After Divorce

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Your New Love Motto When Dating After Divorce
3 mottoes to help you attract new and amazing love.

The most important person for you to trust is yourself. Because of what happened in the past, you may doubt your own judgment. Re-learn to trust yourself again by looking for times when you have made choices that were smart and in your best interests. These can be small and seem insignificant, but they still count.

Know the difference between internal messages that come from fear or doubt and those that are clear and confident, even if the information is counter to what you hoped for.

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As you demonstrate that you CAN trust yourself, it gets easier to know when you’re spending time with someone who is a match for what you want and when the person is not a match. Even if you’re still in the process of proving that you can trust yourself, see what happens when you try on the love motto, “I trust myself to decide what’s best for me.”

#3: “I deserve to be happy.”
Life can seem to put up roadblocks and obstacles at every turn. If you’ve had more than your share of pain and difficulty, deep down inside you might wonder if you even deserve to be as happy and loved as you’re longing to be.

If your default motto has been something along the lines of, “I never get what I want” or “I’m destined to be let down,” back up and make a shift.

First, know that EVERYBODY deserves to be happy-- that includes you too. No matter what the past was like, your present and your future are wide open to be happy and fulfilling. This is a possibility for you and you are the key to making it happen.

You don’t have to fully believe it. Affirming that you can and deserve to be happy in love and in your life is a way to practice a new reality.

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Speak this motto with assurance, “I deserve to be happy” and then go out and meet people who are interesting and treat you right. Date the ones you truly enjoy being with and allow happiness to become your new normal.
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Susie & Otto Collins

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Susie and Otto Collins are relationship coaches and authors who help couples communicate, connect and create the passionate relationships they desire.



 

Location: Columbus, OH
Credentials: BS, CCC
Specialties: Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues
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