What Magazines Won't Tell You About Dating

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What Magazines Won't Tell You About Dating
Looking for love doesn’t have to be such difficult work!

2. Show your passions.
One big mistake that many people make when out socially is to be like clay. They mold themselves to whatever topic seems to be dominating the conversation. Whether it’s politics, sports or finding a global warming, even if you don’t agree or find the topic sort of boring, you join in with enthusiastic smiles and nods.

If you do this, you to hide the real you and what you are really passionate about. You aren’t being genuine.

Of course, it's a big turnoff to talk with someone who will only listen and engage when it's something he or she is into.

We aren't suggesting that you take over every conversation you’re in, but do be honest and open about what you are passionate about. When you talk about your interests, you're going to light up and come alive-- no matter how geeky, odd or strange they seem to you. THIS is what will attract the other person and make him or her want to get to know you even more.

3. Lead with curiosity.
Set aside your worries that you're too awkward, not cute enough or whatever it is your thoughts distract you with. Keep bringing yourself back to the moment you are sharing with this person you are talking to or spending time with. Get curious and let that lead you in what you say and do.

Find out more about the person. What peaks your interest about what he or she is saying? What would you like to know more about? Also ask yourself questions like, “Am I enjoying talking with him?” “Does spending time with her feel like a fit for what I'm looking for?”

When it's your curiosity that drives-- instead of “shoulds” or guesses about what would be impressive-- you're going to know when you're with someone who is a match for you and when you're not. Love will just happen without all of the work and it will feel wonderful!
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