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Surprising and Strange Advice to Attract a Great Relationship

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Surprising and Strange Advice to Attract a Great Relationship
Make 2013 the year you attract your perfect partner!

Try not to censor the answers that come when you ask yourself the question, “What can I learn from you?” about each of your exes. Remember, this isn't about you being “good” and your ex being “bad” (or vice versa). It's about you looking for patterns and lessons and making changes based on what you discover.

Forgive to make room for love.

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The next part of this surprising and strange advice for attracting love is to clear space.

Most people carry around a whole lot of baggage. This takes the form of regret, grief, bitterness and negative expectations, among other things. That baggage clouds your view of those you are meeting and getting to know now and it causes you to react in ways that might not fit the current situation.

Forgiveness is a powerful way to make room for the future you want.

Know that when you forgive, you aren't saying it is suddenly okay that your ex cheated on you or hurt you in some  other way. You aren't doing this for anyone else but you.

Be sure to forgive yourself too for anything you believe you did wrong.

Start with the people who seem easiest to forgive. You can simply focus on a memory or even a photograph of the person and speak the words, “I forgive you” and really feel how that feels. Be gentle with yourself and keep building on the genuine forgiveness you are able to do.

As you learn from your past and you forgive, you'll begin to feel freer, clearer and lighter. You'll be able to really interact with the people you meet and already know and do so from a fresh and open place.

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You'll also enjoy yourself more and one day, maybe when you least expect it, you'll effortlessly attract exactly the kind of love relationship you've been waiting for.
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