Find out what’s possible.
Maybe erasing the words “this means that” from your vocabulary doesn’t feel realistic. After all, it’s kind of like asking someone to pretend that there’s not a Pink flamingo sitting in the living room. There's no denying your very vivid and real fears...even if there isn't proof that those fears are accurate now or that they'll happen in the future.
9 times out of 10, you can't know what will happen in the future. Why not base your decision about how to respond to a worrisome situation on the facts that you can know? Calm your fears by remembering that what you can't know and what you do know.
This will help you see what's actually possible.
Before you conclude that the guy across the room isn't interested in you, find out more. Work up the courage to walk up to him and say “hello.” Ask him to dance with you. Explore what's possible by taking a risk.
With the date you've not heard from in a couple of days, make a call or send one more text to him. Don't play games, but let him know how much you enjoyed going out and that you'd like to do it again. Be clear and say that you're available this weekend but will make other plans if you don't hear from him.
This isn't meant to be manipulation, it's merely communicating that you aren't going to continue to incessantly text him and you won't be sitting around waiting either.
If he says, “no” or refuses to respond, you can rebound more quickly if you re-focus on other options. Don't use this temporary set back to return “this means that” to your vocabulary.
Instead, ask yourself a question like, “What else would be fun this weekend?” or “Who would I enjoy spending time with since he is not available (or answering my texts)?” The more options you present to yourself, the better chance that you'll be happy and the quicker you'll meet someone who is a match for you.
Finding love isn't brain surgery! As you erase limiting thoughts and keep yourself open, the right partner will come into your life easily and even effortlessly. Automatic Attraction Secrets shows you how. Visit www.AutomaticAttractionSecrets.com to get started today.